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2) No we can not "help you" if the guy is not attracted to you. Maybe a better help would be to respond to those spam messages you see on youtube how to make black magic spell for someone to fall in love with you and get in touch with the guru in India or Africa. Who knows.. Maybe a Nigerian prince could swipe you from your feet in the meantime and forget all about that guy.
hahaha if spells were working this world would have been a great mess!
Well back to the subject. Let me summarize the OP:
-asked me if I had a boyfriend
-asked me at 10 o clock at night, at the gym WHAT WAS I DOING AFTER THE SESSION
-asked me AGAIN next time he saw me WHAT I WAS DOING DURING THE WEEKEND
-accepted to go out with me for a drink with enthusiasm (but didn't follow through because the gf found out that something was going on)
-he admitted he was touching me too much outside training
-he wanted to get to know me BETTER (he said lots of times and I turned him down).
So yes I think there were enough IOIs for me. I don't know about you.
-RECENTLY...
We had to train for ten days in a different gym due to refurbishment and by coincidence I met him at the other gym. He was with some other coworkers pts training together. I said hello to everyone. He asked me in front of everyone to stay a bit longer. I refused. He asked me if I was going to train the next day. I said yes and then he asked me what time. I gave him a generic answer: daytime.
I saw him again couple of days later randomly at the entrance of the gym and told him about the time that I am at the gym he told me that these were not his times that he was training. So I wasn't going to see him until we go back to our normal gym :/
THE next day he WAS at the gym at the times I told him. He crossed in front of me without saying hello but he was laughing about it. I said a calm hello and he said one back. He left quickly. No conversation.
I ignore him since and he avoids me too.
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