It really isn't. I need to get in a flow state of mind when I study so I didn't want any distractions.

I am otherwise I wouldn't be with her. And it really is the reason. When I study I get into a flow state of mind which I don't need any distractions do break it.

Ok so don't get into any relationships until you're done school.

I am done. I just finished. So now my goal is to try to take steps forward to fix it. So would that be to give her space and not contact her and when she eventually contacts me to have a more alpha vibe while showing her that I care for her and am very attracted to her.. What you all think ?

Lol, "I don't want to have sex because I need to get into a flow state of mind"... dude is sounding like he's a fighter or something lolol.

Listen man. You are being SUPER weird. You already probably lost her to be honest at this point. You're thinking that you need to just 'lay back and act alpha'? Stop taking shitty advice bro.

Listen, you need to hit her up, explain to her you wanted to just focus on school, but that it was a mistake shutting her out. You should of had sex with her, but limited how much you hung out with her to focus on school. You will not do that again, and you will manage your life and her correctly. And then most importantly... FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SEX IS THE GLUE THAT HOLDS THE RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER. REPEAT AFTER ME, *SEX IS THE GLUE THAT HOLDS THE RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER!!!!!* If you're not willing to fuck a girl, stop wasting your time and stop wasting hers, let her go.