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If you're initiating contact with a girl every day that early, you're doing it wrong, and you're not busy.
You're changing the discussion. I never said
initiating contact every day.... if you're
initiating contact every day things are probably one sided. The point was texting with a girl every day. You're taking examples to the extreme, such as "texting 24/7", "initiating contact every day"....no one is advising these things. Also, "busy" doesnt mean you cant take 10-15 seconds and send a text message. You cant sincerely say that whether you respond to a text or initiate a text with a chick depends on how busy someone is.
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Who cares? Either way it works in the man's favor.
What favor? What is your goal? To make her like you? To make her chase?
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But challenge doesnt mean how often you text.
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Sure it does.
To be clear, do you think that if you were to text a chick more, the CONTENT of those messages would provide less challenge for her than if you didn't?
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Women give out their number looking for a dominant male and passion...a man to take them from the mundane. They aren't attention whores for doing so. And the less dominant the man (and emotionally needy, IE over-texting) the more it will feel like she's playing games or "seeking attention" when the reality is she's just on the fence.
The profession simply doesn't matter. A woman seeking the right man will give out her number to men...especially independent, strong women who aren't afraid of their sexuality.
See, you said as busy man you couldnt text daily. So these women, who are texting multiple guys who they're on the fence about daily, how busy are they? This is why profession matters. If the 10 is meeting new guys, and has old guys still texting her, what else is she doing in her life? You said it...you dont have the time...so how does she? If she's on the fence with so many guys, to where it sounds like her job and all these social media distractions, most likely she's not doing much with the other aspects of her life. Sure, there's probably chicks with a life beyond the sexuality who can spend the time to give out their numbers this much and respond to this much and still balance friends, career, school, fitness...but lets be real. The majority of the subset you're describing have prioritized their sexuality
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I'm focused on my goals. I don't have time to text women all day. I use the phone to set meets, then go about my purpose. When I'm not going about my purpose, I have a wide array of "couch-free" activities such as photography, exercise, hiking, rafting, fly fishing, reading, writing, searching for new music, and other mind-expansion endeavors.
I move on from women who text me constantly.
It goes back to this....If a chick is texting you constantly, you move on because you're focused on your goals. But these chicks are distracted by social media as you say, texting multiple guys and giving out their numbers to find a dominant male. So they may not be texting you constantly, but they're texting constantly. What's the difference? The women you say are ok, are texting constantly, so cant be following their goals or doing much else.
Imagine if I said, Im following my goals and I move on from women who want to go to the bar with me constantly. But then I say, the women I like are always going to the bars daily with other guys. So these women are still going to the bar constantly but then how can I say that there's a difference whether she goes with me or other guys and how can I say these women have alot of REAL things going on if they're partaking in behavior I see as time wasting to a far greater extent?
Im not saying you're wrong or these chicks are bad. Personally, the hot chicks Ive dated, the ones who had things going on...if they like you, they like you. They dont have time to text all these guys, if they like you and you like them you can text talk meet and dont have to have rules on it because you both dont have time for it. They cant have a bunch of guys hitting them up because they're doing something for most of the day where they cant be on their phone like that. And when they finish work, its just unwanted attention.
Im not for overtexting or undertexting; I'm for if you like a chick contact her or respond when you want to. If she is juggling many dudes and cant distinguish you from them, thats her issue and she's already too obsessed with distractions to focus and enjoy life. If she doesnt like you for what you say, but rather for what you dont say, then you're just setting yourself up for a relationship where you cant be real. You can challenge a girl in better ways than not texting her and a girl can chase you if you have standards.
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