You're saying that you've stopped acting the way that you normally act because you don't want to seem pushy? When you start acting outside of your normal character then things will get awkward.

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Snap her something detached, like your dinner, a puppy, a shit you just made floating in the bowl. Just to let her know you are there.

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This.

You can't be pushy doing shit you always have done.

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No you guys are right. I guess for some reason I am over thinking things such as - what if she's all confused I don't want to push her away by showing that I want her badly . Or to potentially have her change her mind or do anything to offset any attraction between us.

But that's just my over thinking. I just acted normally, snapping her something funny and invited her out with our friends tonight. But she has been busy since she is studying.


Any thoughts

To be honest, it feels as though there has been some kind of shift in between us and I can't put my finger on it. It's not negative, I think perhaps I am seeing this person through a different light.

I think the term you're looking for is oneitis.

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Oh I know what oneitis is and I try to avoid it. I'm currently talking to 2 other girls to prevent that. I try to fulfill myself by enriching myself with my hobbies, friends, passions and not needing a girl to fulfill my happiness.

It's just that I've been thinking a lot about what happened between us since I've never been in this situation before.

Well let me just say you gentlemen were right. It was a fucking tease and experiment for her. She teases me all the way right before sex. And yesterday here is what happened.

Last night I go over to hang out. We watch a movie. We cuddle all over each other, and then towards the end of the movie I go to kiss her and she starts saying how we can't always kiss. That she doesn't want this to be expected everything we hang out. That only sometimes we can kiss.

Fair enough, we end up talking about it some more and she says she just did it when she was bored. That she isn't into it as much as I am, that she didn't mind doing it for show when we were out at a club. She felt bad that she led me on. 

Despite all of that, we cuddled all night long, sleeping on each other but she didn't want to kiss. It kind of pissed me off because I felt that she had put a green light that it was okay to get physical and suddenly didn't want to anymore.