| ive been dating this girl for about a little over month now, things have been going well, in the last two weeks especially weve seen each other alot. We get on great and our sex life is great.
However im getting a bit irritated and perhaps a bit insecure from the lack of affection coming from her.
If I initiate it, be it holiding hands, kissing or even sex, she is always up for it.
But never once has she gone to kiss me, she has never reached for my hand or seduced me. Its been me doing all the leg work. Even just a peck on the cheek would be great but not even that.
Like I said, if i initiate it, she is always game, and she is always keen to see me and spend time with me.
Another thing she never compliments or says flirty things, for example i may text her saying 'missing you today' and she will just say something like 'bet youre not'.
Or I may say 'i had a really great weekend with you' and instead of saying 'me too' she would say something completely different like 'what you up to?'
Im not one to come on strong in that sense, so im not overwhelming her with romantic texts etc, but it would be nice to hear her say something nice about me.
Like I said, she does seem keen in the fact she is always up for spending time with me and we do get on great, if i show her affection she always responds, but never initiates.
I must add, this girl isnt insecure, she is very confident and good looking, she will have a que of guys lining up for their chance, and she probably knows that.
im reluctant to speak to her about it, because then she will probably just show fake affection. im not the first to text each day, she usually texts me with a 'good morning hows you' each morning.
im guessing I perhaps came on a little strong, how do i now play hard to get to get her to chase me and keep things exciting?
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