I wrote much more than this but ended up deleting it. You know why? because you're a raging idiot and I'm wasting keyboard ink.

You're being stupid and it's for one of two reasons.
Either you are not capable of recognizing the validity of the advice you've gotten and acting upon it.
Or
You are capable, but refuse to anyway "because it's easier said than done".
Whichever it is, you deserve what's coming to you.

Easier said than done. No shit it's easier said than done. Whoever the fuck said it would be easy? You know what is easy though? Dumping her NOW rather than having to go through the shitstorm of finding out she's been getting ram fucked by the dude on the second floor for a couple of months, half a year from now.

It never ceases to amaze me to what lengths some guys will go to keep their delusion alive. You actually think that she'll sacrifice college, 3 years of her life, some of the most unique years of her life at that, for a relationship?

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In the end, she's just a woman. Not even that really, just a human being. There are so many people in this world. Why would YOU even consider spending three years of your life doing long-distance? Why sacrifice YOUR life? If anything, this woman is catching the drift of the situation far faster than you are. She wants to enjoy today, and when you two go long distance she may realize that you two are actually doing this and pull out. It isn't you! You are not the problem. It's just that no one in their right mind sacrifices this much especially this soon into a relationship. It's hypocritical because my girlfriend and I did almost a year, and she said she would do the full four years but I wasn't going to do that! So she moved to see me. Your situation is different and three months in between seeing each other is way too little. Trust me, she might be a loyal person now, although it didn't sound like it, but her girlfriends in college will egg her on to be single and all the guys will see right through your relationship and know it's blood in the water. Have fun today, and at the first signs of her pulling out, let her go. It's the only advice I have. If she never pulls out, great.

Evidently you've never seen Shutter Island.

I shed a tear for mankind whenever I read a post like this.
All aboard the needy train. It's filled to capacity. Next stop fun filled soul stealing Oneitisville.

It really, really hard to get off of a journey that you refuse to admit you are on!

Neediness is a desperate need for affection.

The extreme need for affection that will cause a person dedicate his life to a whore, give someone else their manhood, and engage in chronic masturbation.

To be needy is a guy who needs (her) attention no matter what the cost. A person that doesn’t have much confidence and will bug the living shit out of some poor girl just for that little attention. They are always suspicious, yet willing to put up with any sort of behavior, just for a momentary blip of attention.

Needy is desperate, plain and simple!

This is caused by the more common affliction, Lackapussy.

Lackapussy:

Translation from Hawaiian. Lack of sexual activity among males.
Im suffering from LACKAPUSSY.

A frequent and sometime fatal disease, its causes are lack of any other options in your life. Resulting in extreme neediness, hairy palms, and wheezing.

The combinations of these two problems WILL compound each other, causing you to give up the male persona.

The only known remedy is YOU!

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Had some time to cool off.
Here's my recent thoughts on all this. She's given me a shitload of red flags and I'm slowly starting to see them again. it's idiotic to think that I can have her for three years or that I even SHOULD. I'll stay fun, keep things light and nice. I'll just keep being who I am, and enjoying whatever time I get with her because she's honestly fun to talk to and be with and she's fairly attached to me.
We'll meet in August and I'll just enjoy whatever time I get with her then.
I've started talking to other women, I won't cheat because that's just a part of who I am, but regardless it already has had an effect on me and the way I interact with her and everyone else around me. I've gotten back on my goals and doing everything I did before all this shit happened and fucked my entire mindset up.

I'll enjoy the time I get with her, let things go or it'll just cause me to grow jealous and obsessed and worsen what's already shit, and if she decides to fuck around some more I'll leave her on the spot and I will have absolutely no issue in doing so because I got the person I was back, and I'll do my best to keep the exact mindset I have right now as I'm typing this.

Yet you are going to continue masturbating for another 3 months?

Bruce Jenner used to have that kind of dedication, look where it got HIM!

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So you realize that this red flagged relationship isn't going to work but you're going to continue on with it and waste time talking to women that you're not going to do anything with? Why do you have such a chump mentality?

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