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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 8:49 am 
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Simply answer "thanks for clearing that up :-)"

Polite answer without leading to a further conversation... and then continue to move on.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 9:00 am 
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You don't keep ex's as friends. And if you do, you don't build that friendship one or two months after you broke up. It's too soon.

And this is why. Don't lie to yourself. Part of you is still afraid that if you don't reply she'll just fade from your life forever. And your lingering feels are the cause of that. In your mind you're not losing a potential friend, you're losing your ex.

I know it can be hard to let go, but let go. Don't reply to her text. You'll only get sucked back in. If there's ever to be a friendship between the two of you, it will be when both of you are willing and capable of such a thing. Right now none of you are.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 10:39 am 
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I feel I have something to say about this.
I broke up with a girl 3 years ago. Until today I was the only bf she has ever had. Since then she hooked up with 1 or 2 dudes for some weeks, only kisses.
When she knew I had a gf, she didn't ever liked a photo of mine, a song, anything in my facebook.

We're "friends". And I wrote "friends", because she rarely talks to me about emotional stuff, mainly about guys. I feel she still likes me (a lot of people agree with me, people who know her also), which means that she didn't completely overcome our break up.
I believe that's what happens when someone breaks up with another. The part that was left behind will have a hard time in letting go, so waiting is really the only thing you can do.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 11:06 am 
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Update#2 I want to start by Thanking all of you guys that took the time to read and reply. I am still writting in this thread cause I want to keep this as a memory and laugh.After a month I can say that at first you want her back but once you shift your mind and start to improve, you dont want to go back. You meet new people and you realize, wow i was blind there is so many interesting people out there and better then what you thought was "the best".

So today i got back another text of my ex
Her: name . If you own a Honda and are assured and drive your friends Ferrari you are insured, under his policy. Therefore if something happens to the Ferrari well it's covered under your friends insurance. Good night.

I asked her a question about insurance Before we broke up. I dont know how to respond. I would say "Thanks" and Thats about It or i wouldnt reply at all.

I want to keep eventually her as a friend and only that. I am happy with my current life and don't want her back.

How could I respond to her text when she text me.

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Reply with something short like "Cool. Thanks ;)"

Wait a couple more months and then see if you want to keep her as a friend. No matter what you think, if you had been in love at some point, it will get to you if when meet her soon and she is with her new guy.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2016 11:45 am 
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op start with the mentality she wont come back, even she will, i wont accept. %80 is done.

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