I've been fucking 3 different girls and I've disclosed to each of them about who I'm seeing and what the dynamic is. I explicit that I am trying to build a harem of women that I want to see regularly and I reinforce with each of them why I want them to stay around and I listen to their concerns. Two of them are fine with just fucking, the other wants to casually date as well as just fucking.

Two of these options have been present in my apartment being fucked on the same night so they know I'm not faking abundance.

Problem is now they threaten to leave if I am not the only one who fucks them. They don't want to share. I have agreed to this for 2 of the 3 options and they get excited but then the texting and interest drops and when it comes to meeting time they are less certain about plans and say they don't trust me because they don't know if they will be the only one with me that night.

1 of these girls wants more of a relationship. The other just wants me fucking her nobody else.

Was this a huge shit test to try to get me to surrender control? They KNOW I have options and can get some wherever, so for them to think sticking to them makes me an optionless AFC is a moot point.

As I try to reaffirm that I will stick with them and drop my other girls, they become more distant.

What the hell is going on? Should I have not been upfront about seeing other women? That's not congruent with who I am though, lying.

I have fucked these girls 4 times each. I do not want to cut them off. I have been alternating seeing them every other day, as seeing them everyday may get to clingy, but they are the ones who chase and I don't want them to lose interest because I don't see them for more than 2 days because they WILL wander.

Please provide any feedback.

How can you agree to exclusivity with 2 girls and not be a liar?

You're full of shit. You lie to women and brag about doing it. Now it's not congruent with who you are.

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I never imagined that such a girl/woman existed who would buy in and be involved with something like what you described. That is pretty amazing. I have no feedback, just surprised is all.

I have 'the talk' with them after 3 bangs and I make them start to fall for me, because if I disclose who I am seeing at the start they will bail. I try to understand what it is that will make them comfortable and not feel 'used'. They don't like being an option because the script is never flipped on them like that since they can have whoever they want simply because they have vaginas.

The odd thing is that 2 of these girls know that I fucked them both in one night on 2 different occasions and they still want to see me they just don't trust me. Once we hang out on a particular day, I show them all the texts of scheduled meets I had and cancel them right in front of them to show that I have options, but when I choose them, I choose them to build the quality of whatever dynamic we have whether it's fwb or whatever.

Man you're a dick, aren't you?

One of my main reasons for posting on this forum is that I don't want guys to go through what I went through - if I just post one comment anywhere that motivates a guy to get his dating life sorted, then it's worth it. But it's so demotivating to see a guy like you hiding his insecurities by being the stereotypical manipulative, insecure, needy, scarcity minded PUA.

Your main reason for posting is to brag about how nasty you are.

Were we supposed to all just be like "Whoa! 3 girls?!? You passed that shit test like a BOSS! Do you do bootcamps?!?" because it's honestly just a bragging post.

This is why aliens and feminists wont talk to us.

Edit: 1111 posts and I'm still seeing this shit? I get to a number as pretty and cool looking/barcode resembling as 1111 and it's wasted on a thread like this one? Wow

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Troll. And total douche nozzle.

That's not my intention to brag etc. I asked for help pertaining to the situation at hand.

Ok be honest with them all. Tell them everything. If you want a relationship with one, pick one before you even tell them - don't use the other 2 as a safety net.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Guys, OP needs help. Can't you see that.

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What is wrong with what I'm doing? Why does everyone say I'm fucked up?