I agree with J.Daniels the best response is just to tell her to let you know and then leave it her court and forget about it. And just by the act of her re-engaging with you is a sign of investment on her part. You want a non butt hurt response that is interested in seeing her, but paradoxically not too phased if it doesn'thappen.
I used to be of mind that if a girl is interested in you then she will make the time regardless. This is true to a certain degree but needs to be taken into context with the individual and with a grain of salt.
I think that's the key difference is understanding the degree of interest. As Men we are usually interested or not in a woman. And it comes from the start of just liking her physical appearance. Either we think she is hot or not most of the time. With woman it's more of a volume dial which takes time to turn up. You might be a 6 or 7 on the interest scale. Interested but that water still not boiling hot yet and not whistling. But it could still get there.
Also have to take into account the girl. Some girls are just flaky and disorganized. That's their nature, don't take it personal. Just be no commital with them too. Keep them 3-4 of them on the back burner and setup a date of the day of. And then choose the girl you want to go with that day and cancel with the others. You are just being on the rhythm that they want to be.
Other girls have more their stuff together. They tell you exactely when they're free and always show up and consistently. That goes with how they are in other aspects of their life.
The fact of the matter she is engaging you on some level. Ie asking if you're free during the week. So she is interested, again just a question of degree. So dial down your interest level to be on par with hers. This is usually done easier when you have multiple girls on the go. And your mind literally doesn't have time to get too mentally invested in one. I mean this is the same reason why womens interest levels are not always full gauged right from the get go too. Since the average woman tends to always have more suitors and people propositioning for her than a man at a given time.
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She works on the weekend, she asked me if i'm free during the week. I said yes usually (because sometimes I travel for work). I asked her if there's a day that works best, and she said no because her schedule is random week to week. What's ur guys opinion on how to go about her response?
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