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PostPosted: Sun Jan 03, 2016 4:26 pm 
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My point was pretty simple.

If she does flake indeed and doesn't put up explanation by herself she's not that into the guy as OP would like.

That's why I AGAIN emphasize that I'm not suggesting avoidance as solution, rather being more aloof and relaxed.

Plus. There are no grounds for questioning her whereabouts, they are not even in relationship, they are just seeing each other.

There is grounds; she wasted his time. Doesnt matter if they are in a relationship or not; its something you should question as to what happened, or just not see her again. See, this is why there is a prevalence of disrespectful chicks on these threads, because disrespect and rudeness is ignored because she's not your gf yet. As I said, this could be a first date or a tenth...doesnt matter. This could be a chick, a guy friend, a family member, heck even a delivery man....if someone wastes your time, you can ask them what happened. You can question something aloof and relaxed and get your answer. Does it matter if she likes him? No...rude is rude. Wasting my time is wasting my time. OP acts aloof, doesnt say anything...ok...then he's gonna give her another chance to do it again? If anything she'll like him LESS if he doesnt address it as he's communicating he doesnt care abt his time. She knows she wasted his time. I'm saying guys...have standards for how someone treats you. Have standards for when someone wastes your time. Don't be afraid to address it. Dont excuse it for the chick because you want her.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 03, 2016 7:16 pm 
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theres a time to be a man and a time to be a boy,
stop playing the wuss, she dose not always need to open

are you playing the female gender role and shes playing the male gender role?
sounds like shes leading things

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 03, 2016 7:37 pm 
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Just thought I'd drop by and give you guys an update:

Ended up seeing her last night and asked her what happened. She showed me her phone and lo and behold she did not get those messages that I sent her for some reason along with other text from other people. Then she told me how pissed off she is with me for not texting her back when she offered me a ride to the airport or the rest of the week. So moral of the story, if a girl out of nowhere flakes on you something happened beyond her control. Stop being a pussy and call her. Instead, I tried to do the freezeout which just got her upset because she thought I was ignoring her...so close to losing a great girl because I over analyze everything!!!

But thank you brahs for your help.


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Just thought I'd drop by and give you guys an update:

Ended up seeing her last night and asked her what happened. She showed me her phone and lo and behold she did not get those messages that I sent her for some reason along with other text from other people. Then she told me how pissed off she is with me for not texting her back when she offered me a ride to the airport or the rest of the week. So moral of the story, if a girl out of nowhere flakes on you something happened beyond her control. Stop being a pussy and call her. Instead, I tried to do the freezeout which just got her upset because she thought I was ignoring her...so close to losing a great girl because I over analyze everything!!!

But thank you brahs for your help.
gold, but she may have over reacted because you put it all on her for flaking out,
she twisted it on ya :P that topic could be avoided and you could have said you left early or what ever..

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Just thought I'd drop by and give you guys an update:

Ended up seeing her last night and asked her what happened. She showed me her phone and lo and behold she did not get those messages that I sent her for some reason along with other text from other people. Then she told me how pissed off she is with me for not texting her back when she offered me a ride to the airport or the rest of the week. So moral of the story, if a girl out of nowhere flakes on you something happened beyond her control. Stop being a pussy and call her. Instead, I tried to do the freezeout which just got her upset because she thought I was ignoring her...so close to losing a great girl because I over analyze everything!!!

But thank you brahs for your help.
That's what playing stupid games will get you.

However, good to see you made it.

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Just thought I'd drop by and give you guys an update:

Ended up seeing her last night and asked her what happened. She showed me her phone and lo and behold she did not get those messages that I sent her for some reason along with other text from other people. Then she told me how pissed off she is with me for not texting her back when she offered me a ride to the airport or the rest of the week. So moral of the story, if a girl out of nowhere flakes on you something happened beyond her control. Stop being a pussy and call her. Instead, I tried to do the freezeout which just got her upset because she thought I was ignoring her...so close to losing a great girl because I over analyze everything!!!

But thank you brahs for your help.
That's what playing stupid games will get you.

However, good to see you made it.

Simple how a simple phone call on either part to ask if they were still on couldve stopped the whole bs. OP, you shouldve called to ask what was happening, as should she have when she didnt get your messages. Moving forward, make sure BOTH of you arent afraid to reach out when you make plans and things get iffy.


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^ Yes.

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