Quote:
My point was pretty simple.
If she does flake indeed and doesn't put up explanation by herself she's not that into the guy as OP would like.
That's why I AGAIN emphasize that I'm not suggesting avoidance as solution, rather being more aloof and relaxed.
Plus. There are no grounds for questioning her whereabouts, they are not even in relationship, they are just seeing each other.
There is grounds; she wasted his time. Doesnt matter if they are in a relationship or not; its something you should question as to what happened, or just not see her again. See, this is why there is a prevalence of disrespectful chicks on these threads, because disrespect and rudeness is ignored because she's not your gf yet. As I said, this could be a first date or a tenth...doesnt matter. This could be a chick, a guy friend, a family member, heck even a delivery man....if someone wastes your time, you can ask them what happened. You can question something aloof and relaxed and get your answer. Does it matter if she likes him? No...rude is rude. Wasting my time is wasting my time. OP acts aloof, doesnt say anything...ok...then he's gonna give her another chance to do it again? If anything she'll like him LESS if he doesnt address it as he's communicating he doesnt care abt his time. She knows she wasted his time. I'm saying guys...have standards for how someone treats you. Have standards for when someone wastes your time. Don't be afraid to address it. Dont excuse it for the chick because you want her.