It's been a while since i last posted on this forum. It's nice to come back again and seek the wisdom from the wisest.

So, I'm gonna cut right to the chase. I'm 21, she's 19. Both on college, we met in nightclub two months ago, had sex, since then it's texting/sexting, we see each other every day on classes and not so often/rare I come to her room, or she comes into my to "watch a movie". (if you know what I mean). Lately, I think I've developed some feelings for her, she's showing some jealousy, I like to be cocky and I fuck with her head (in good way) all the time so she can say things like "you better not hang out with other girls etc."

Tonight, i sent her a text that goes like this:"Hey girl, slow the fuck down, I'm not your fuck toy which you can use every time you wish :p Although I know your grades are bad bcs I can't get out of your mind (naked) hahhaa"

And she responded: "mmmmmm :* I didn't say you were my sex toy, I only like your body and that's only it :* "


I was like what the fuck after that message, does it mean she only likes my body for real, or she's just fucking with me. Maybe I'm thinking to much, any thoughts?

Thanks for reading.

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You started joking around with her, so she's just returning the favor.

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Yup... I'm probably developing feelings toward her that's why I reacted in my mind like this... Developing oneitis.. OMG! What should I do?

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Why do you have feelings for her?

You can't really have onitus for a girl you're already fucking. There's nothing wrong with catching feelings as long as either of you didn't specifically state they don't want your affair to evolve past just sex.

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I dunno... Right now I'm on vacation in Wien right now, and I was thinking if should I buy her something (gift) nothing expensive, something little so it can remind her of me... Any ideas? Or should I drop that idea, I like her, and she likes me. But I don't want to to push anything, if things are meant to happen, then it will... If not, there are hunders of others waiting...

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You at at the point (if you have some "feelings") its time to define the relationship... If you thinking about buying her gifts I would say your interested in dating this girl.

If your not then why buy her a gift? Shes already fucking you... no need to spend money or confuse what you have.

I typically let the girl define the relationship (even though I didn't in my last relationship and it was a huge mistake, I was insecure and wanted her as a trophy, bad idea and lesson learned).

That way you are choosing to either get into a relationship with her, or keep her as a FB and continue until you find the right girl for a relationship.

I think she is teasing you back and could be a bit of a defense mechanism on her part too. Maybe she is trying to rationalize that there is nothing more than this. And trying to put up some walls to protect her ego.

Sure there are women who just like to roll in the hay, but in general they still do it with more emotional connection than others. (Always anomalies to this)

Obviously if you're posting on a forum this is developed into something more. You should probably discuss it at this point, rather than make assumptions. Because if you are looking for a relationship, showing that you can actually communicate is the first step to making it work. And the continued strength of it is always based on communication.

And right here is where it starts to slide down the bowl ....

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Lock this post someone...


"Da feels" came over for no reason.


No problem anymore, thanks for responses.

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But did you get her a gift?

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There's no such thing as shit-tests.
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0.49 cent key tag (and yes, she's using it).

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