Darn! I just got back home from my lover. We had ups and downs and I always kept the realtionship off, but we were fuckbuddies all along and after a short break we picked it up again a month ago. She agreed we should just stay lovers and leave the idea of a relationship commitment.
Today we had some contact over SPAM:
Me at 10:10: Hey I went to the doctor for those spots on my back, they turned out to be scars, so no problem.
Her at 12:56: Hmm, well I still don't trust this, maybe I should do a checkup myself?
I called her up around 15:00 and said I was going to be near her place in more than an hour, and I could stop by. She said it was okay.
I arrived about 16:15 and we talked and had a drink. As soon as I started escalating she said she was going to go out of town with family at 17:00, so we couldn't F.
What she didn't tell me, was that the rendez vous point was her place. We were still cuddling on the couch, as her mother knocked at the window! My heart skipped a few paces. We live in a small town and from tomorrow, the mother will be communicating all over the place that we are couple. Which we are not! I introduced myself and stayed calm, and told everyone I was leaving. They offered to take me on their trip, but I said I was busy. My lover was quiet the whole time. I couldnt figure out if she was kind of pleased I walked into this trap so stupidly, or if she was just as awkward about this as I was.
How to take it from here? SHould I apply more "expectation management" or not? I think if this thing blows up in her face its her problem not mine.
CHAT
