So, continuation of a story;

she approached me today while I was in a big group of friends, asked me for drinks in front of everybody. I said sure but later towards the evening. In an hour she sent me a message saying she underestimated how much she has to study for her exam in the morning. Said something along the lines, hope to see me soon - maybe tomorrow.

I opened the message but haven't responded. Was thinking of treating it as a regular flake, not respond and act like all normal when I see her. Answering something like "sure, see you tomorrow" or whatever on the same line might make it seem like I have nothing better to do than wait for her.

Opinions?

You have to assess whether she still likes you that much after giving her the equivalent of blue balls for NOT taking action during those times when she felt horny.

YOU: I'll cook some homemade cheeseburger for dinner. I'll grab some beef patties at grocery xyz. Help me choose the best ingredients tomorrow at xx:xx (time).

If she still likes you, she'll help you out, isolate with you again to your apartment, and help you cook the burger. When this happens, all you have to do is stop talking and ESCALATE. Let her talk instead while you're escalating.

If she flakes, sarge other women and let this one go. Your window of opportunity is gone.

By the way, since she is NOT your girlfriend, this thread does NOT belong in the Relationship Section.

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After few days of trying to make a deal we finally arranged to meet. She came on time, just to tell me that she completely forgot that she has a deal with her female friend who is waiting for her to go to the gym together and she can't cancel it . This is the biggest NEXT of my life probably