I've been with my gf for a month now, we slept together couple of times but whenever we're naked (or shes in her underpants) and im fingering her, she always say 'no' when i want to get it in her. She's a virgin and says she want to do it for the 1st time with her husband and i dont know how to make her want to have sex. Anyone had been in simmilar situation before and have a tip how to overcome her rejection?
Shes not a crazy catolic, i can open her to talk about sex or what gives her most pleasure but we can't move on. Also she's my 1st girlfriend so its kinda big deal for me, cuz she's really for me (all out friends tell that we're meant and simmilar) but im pretty sure i cant go like this for too long. Appreciate aby help gIven,
Greetings from Poland.

Going down on her can turn her on to the point she'll be begging for it.
However, if you never did it before it probably wont yield that result. No harm trying though.

The point is to escalate things further and make sure she's enjoying it. A lot.

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My first "real" girlfriend ever was a virgin and was determined to wait until marriage. She had a boyfriend of 3 years before me, some foot ball prodigy and he couldn't crack through. She was a senior in high school and I was a sophomore. It took me 2 months, but I regretted every minute of it. Our relationship had become about me trying to get her to have sex with me and her trying to get me to wait. That was all that was taking place after a while, so once I got it. What our relationship was built upon was no longer there. She got super attached, and I became super detached. I left her, she was crushed, and I ended up feeling the pain of what I did to her a year later resulting me in writing a long as apology letter. A genuine sorry. I didn't want anything from her, I just felt bad because I destroyed. She was top 3 most popular girls in school, and the tide of it all changed once it was over.

I say all that to say, be careful what you wish for. I personally wouldn't take a girls virginity unless I have real interest in being with them long term. Because if she's the type that wants to hold onto it. And she's been successful up until this point, she will hold on to whoever she gives it to just as tightly. And that may not be what you want.

I won't tell you what I did, because I can be very manipulative.. To a fault. But I will recommend you being patient. Getting her horny probably isn't going to cut it for the first run. She has to "love" you. Like she really has to feel it. If you can figure out how to make that happen.. She'll do anything for you.

Give her what she wants.. (not marriage),give her what she wants emotionally, give it relentlessly and she'll pretty much do anything for you. I had that girl giving me money and being my personal chauffeur, I did that to several women in the past but I've learned my lesson. We reap what we sow. So be careful.

These are some of the things i'll never write about on the forums. I'd only teach it to the super responsible. People with knowledge on how to tolerate the level of energy a woman will be giving you once she loves you to that level. Newbies will become easily repulsed by it and leave women crushed. And I don't want to have anything to do with that.

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Somehow similar situation with me, I want to have sex with my GF but she want's to wait till marriage, her argument is that sex should be reserved only for those in marriage. But, other than that she's sexually aggressive, but no sex.

What you said about being manipulative, I had think it thoroughly in the past, I want this women, but I kind of a feel she's not mine if she doesn't give in. When i start to think about possibilities and sex that I could have with other girls, I in my mind treat my GF as "replaceable" material, that's wrong. My mindset is, if we don't fuck soon, I believe girls say they wait till marriage because they don't consider you worthy enough. And If I dont push it, the sex thing. She will eventually find someone who will FUCK her, and be a man, and stand for what he wants. I feel so useless and unworthy because of it, I don't know. It sucks.