Hey guys, how you all doin?

So you know I have been having this problem with a guy who is trying to game my girl.

Basically, he is in a relationship, apperantly,,, with my girls best freind. My girl is an 8 in my eyes, His girl is below 6,global scale,

but he keeps trying to isolate,escalate and use BF destroyers on me behind my back. He trys so hard and im far too busy socialising with her other mates to give a fig.., but im watching you know...
I have more value than this wanna be. By far, and my girl wont fall for it im sure..haha,famous las words ay...

But more seriously what would be a good way to deal with this c*ap... Call him out? Just lower his value all the time he isnt there ,or totally wipe the floor with his face?

I dont think explaining to my girl that hes a wanna be player trying to game her is the best idea,, or is it?

Anyhelp much appreicated guys.

Edit.. If anyone knows for any threads with this sort of topic please feel free to post a link or suggested reading perhaps?
Take it easy...

How do you know he is talking behind your back? I would just ignore it in any case. By acknowledging him in a serious way, you are being reactive and showing insecurities. Definitely don't get into a fight with him. Just keep doing what you're doing and act like it's no big deal or laugh it off.

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Hey guys,

Yeah, both of you are right. Spot on infact, that why this site is a good one ay.
To anwser you DA. .. Basically , i think its because there is no need for it, espically in a setting full of other women. Your right, really.

I guess its the atempted kino that dose it or gets me. then again,,Its funny to see kino not work either. Simply dosnt do enough comfort building, or rapport work. And is to jittery in his actions..
I know it cause i have eyes in the back of my head when im out and about. Say he moves to my seat say when i get up and get a drink. Or follows my girl when see moves to another group say. My girl ocassion,y mentions him after a night out and you can tell he is trying to work on her mind in someway.
Like i say, its like he is an afc with abit of game about him. Hence why i say he is not a threat..really not, but you neer know with a women.

I agree agression isnt the way to go, or calling him out, as that could go against me. Play it cool, as always ay. Top advice..

Thanks for the advice guys. Guess i just had a blip on the panic radar....

It happens. Sometimes you just need an outside perspective to see things objectively. Glad to help

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maybe AMOG him? when he will take your seat, go back and tell him, hey I believe I was sitting here... high five... bye (and smile)

Thanks Checkm4t3, i was thinking that. Sorry for the late reply, been mega busy.

I may of kinda been doing that just by opening a set accross the room from our group. I could see my girl looking at me and this mixed set, that i only opened cause one of the guys had a N.Zealand scarf on his shoulders. (I have been once,) That ,, and of the 5 of them two of the three fems had short blonde hair.

I could see my girl looking at us. All laughing away, even he had to look our way to see what she was staring at.

Anyway, it was a few weeks ago so just a small bump.

Do you think stuff like getting her to follow, maybe even parading in front of him would help? As i had that thought but didnt act on it.

Take care,