Hey guys!

I need some help! My GF and me are together for 2 months, and until last week everything went great! Passionate sex, laughter, joking, so we had a great time! But about a week ago, she a little bit distancing, and a bit cold. She complains, that we don't talk too much(although we talk/text exactly as much like before), and that we don't spend enough time together! That might be true, because we go to school, and I'm a foreigner in this country, so I've to study more, than she, and I have to travel back home almost every weekend. And complains about that too, that she talk/text more with this guy from school (who's actually a friend of mine). They're doing a lot of cool stuff together like baking cakes, what we should do. She says they're just friends, but I think there is something between them. I mean she doesn't cheat on me, but there is something! I planed a lot of cool stuff as well, like watching her favorite series, making pancakes, we went to the prom together, but she doesn't seemed really glad! She's often sad too(as I realized only then, if she's with me, but maybe it's only in my head), and anytime I ask, what's wrong, she repeats with a "everything is fine" or a "nothing wrong"! She's the first girl I picked up since I changed my life (and my first girlfriend as well, I'm only 18) and started this whole PUA lifestyle! So I'm a rookie actually, but I really like this girl and don't want to break up! Any advice or experience could help!

Thanks,
Emeraldgrasshopper

PS: Sorry for my bad english, I'm not a native speaker!

Unfortunately girls have relationship momentum, so if you are going to downhill with her it isnt the easiest thing to correct. First, the obvious, tell your friend to beat it, he shouldn't be having any contact with her. However that doesn't solve your long term problem is she is losing interest.

Somehow you need to make yourself more exciting and interesting via a jealousy plot-line, doing more interesting activities with her, or giving her better and crazier sex. I will caution you that her ostensible excuse of "we don't spend enough time together" very likely isn't the issue. As a general rule be careful believing what woman tell you and using that as advice.

Allright, and thanks for the quick response! Could you give me any good examples for fun activities? We were already bowling, went to the prom, watched her/my favorite TV shows etc. Currently I'm out of ideas. I study in Graz, it's a big city, but nothing special, and it's not comparable to the US! Maybe you could give some general ideas, and I would check, if there's a possibility in Graz!

IDK exactly how but I think that she has to become chasing you.
If a girl is chasing you she can't complain or dump you.

Saying this is one thing but doing it is completely different.

And as a rule I know that she has to contact you 80% and should only do 20 to 30% of the communication.
At least that is what this guy is saying.

So my bet would be to see if you are pursuing her too much, just to back off a little bit and let her to pursue you too a little bit.

But I'm sure there is way more to that...

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