Okay this might be a long one, Girlfriend and I met just under a year ago, were together for four months, then she moved up North to be with family, she didn't know how much I was into her before she left, we chatted, texted, facebooked and all that, then she got robbed by her landlord and was homeless for a bit, I invited her to stay which I had planned from the start, and she thought I offered out of pitty and when I confessed to having feelings for her, we were sort of okay, as far as you can when it's long distance and one of you is suffering a bad run.

She can't/wont come live with me until the court proceedings are settled and she get's her stuff back or her cash settlement but does/did plan to move once that's done, she's recently took temp work and I read something on facebook from a work colleague and got annoyed/jealous and overeacted too it, we were fine though as I oppologised and took the blame for it, I paid for her ticket to come to mine at christmas and everything looked fine again, she didn't show up and made me look stupid in the process, but apparently was in hospital on an I.V drip, so I sent her a text saying how glad I was she was okay ect.

In my haste of not knowing weather she had used and bailed on me I sent her friend a message that wasn't totally damming of her, just that I thought we were through seeing how she had ignored me after christmas and done a no show on me, and she finally got in contact with me on the facebook and is seemingly ignoring me even though I've plead my case and tried to make her understand where I was coming from.

Am I boned or what? because I'm sort of out of ideas here as I can't sort this if she won't even listen too me.

By the way I'm a newbie to your forum, long time reader, first time poster, thanks for having me, please help a brother out.