Hey guys,I need a quick opinion on something.

Ex dumped me over a year ago,the first month i was depressed and shit,but started dating other girls banged some of them too,going out with friends taking possitive pics,etc..

A week ago a mutual friend met with her for coffee,and the ex asked how i was doing if I'm fine and all that..But the interesting thing is that she also asked"so there's no chance of us getting back eh?"and than laughed it off(the friend said it was half serious from what she saw).....

Now i want to text her something like"Do you remember the name of the*some fun vacation we took*?(i remember tha name)"

and no matter what she writes back i'll respond with "bless you"

Pls give me your thoughts bros it's important..

Thanks

Ask yourself: What are you expecting to get out of all this? What is the final goal?

Then ask yourself: Is what I am doing getting me a step closer to my final goal?

The goal couple be to get back together with her, or it could be on a larger scale to be happy, in which case I am not sure that both are compatible.

If you want to contact her, I wouldn't do it via text. I would "bump into her" somewhere. Where she can see you in person, how good you are and how happy you seem. Demonstrates greater value.

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My father once told me:"Son, we are good men in the family and don't have much weakness', but you'll quickly learn that women are our Achilles' heel."

I wish i could "bump into her" but it's not possible..the only place it can happen she'll know for sure it was on purpose..

And i never wanted to end this,i just accepted it and moved on,it still doesnt say that i wouldnt perfer being with her..So i want to do this and watch what happens

In your opinion Is the massege ok though?

Why can't you ask her to meet for coffee? It seems much easier than pretending to not remember something if you want more out of this.

And I always try to remind guys that if she's dumped you before its easier for her to do it again.

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