what have you done that made your ex's return to you? specially long distance and through facebook.

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First of all, I just gave her time and space. Secondly, I LET HER KNOW that I was still interested. I then just invited her out and it all went from there!

Just give her time and space, and then ask her out. If it is meant to be, this should work.

Good luck!

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Can't help you with Facebook game however in terms of spiking her interest, usually when she finds out that you are contentedly moving on and you have other options in your life, it can in some instances re-ignite her interest. Remaining to behave 'alpha' and not needy is also key. I have had situations where the girl will take the reigns, invite me over, and ask me to get back in a relationship with her, and this was only after I exhibited the behavior above.

Who dumped who?

I assume she dumped you. Why did she dump you? If you fucked around on her it may not be possible to get her back... However, regardless:

Jealousy is your best weapon and your best friend.

Cut contact with her but remain friendly if she contacts you.

Stay FB friends with her, Instagram, Twitter... whatever you've got.

Be happy with life and have a great time going out, meeting new people, etc... Friend lots of girls on FB (even seeing that you've added girls can work in your favour).

Photos of you with hot girls are great, but should be done subtly... Like, posting a lot of pictures from a night out, and you happen to have your arm around a 10 in one of them (and an easy way to do this is to just approach a set of hot girls and tell them your roommate decided to stay home and study instead of coming out tonight... and can you please take a selfie with them to show him what he's missing)...

With all that said, why do you want her back anyway? Exes are exes for reasons, normally...

Get on Tinder and start dating. She'll become a faded memory once you have a few other girls on the go.

I agree with all of your points!

I will live life and not worry about what happened. I will meet people, and hang out with new girls and just enjoy life. I know when I enjoy life girls will come naturally and will organically be portrayed on my profile if I honestly post things without the intention to make her jelouse in mind.

Thanks for your points guys.

And I want her back because she was pretty amazing to me. She even told me she's mad she doesn't like me cuz i'm an amazing guy. I know I said I love you too soon but the funny thing is that i'm not grieving her as much. I feel great today. So maybe I didn't love her but just was overtaken by the emotions behind being so far from her.

I'm planning on hiking with some friends, and partying with them and ask THEM to tag me on it so it doesn't seem i'm intentionally doing it.

Again thanks guys, you guys are great for taking the time to respond to me.

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Yes, she dumped me. I have started doing that. I cut contact with her but told her that we still cool as people. Because we were like friends too and she also wants to remain friends, which helps me too (muhaha). So I agree with you man. Thanks

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How long did you guys date and were you humping? The longer you dated, more you humped the better. If it was a month long sudo relationship(which it sounds like), then forget it, if it was years long odds of her comong back greatly increase.

No it was for 9 months.

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more cold approach, date new girls, and suddenly, a past fling is no longer as appealing.