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It's not "game" if its who you are.
You could maybe stop being such a dick to her (that's all I think when I hear neg. You don't need to neg a girl. You just need to be able to stand up for yourself.) and stop telling stupid "dhv" stories. You don't need to "game" her and "build attraction." She already likes you. Just be you.
This post is so fucking stupid its irritating. The fact that you think you've been "gaming" this girl you've been in a relationship with for the last year. Do you realize how retarded that sounds?
It's not what you do. It's who you are.
Girls leave guys all the time. You can't be who you are to keep a girl, unless you are person who knows how to naturally respond to female behaviors well and remain so, tests by them etc. Women don't stop being women. There are many, many game concepts that apply even after 20 years of marriage. You know what a hen-pecked husband or a cuckolded one is?
Many men get lazy when they are in a relationship. The young athletic guy who hits the gym and pursues women, slowly becomes the older guy who hits the beer can and pursues the doritos. As they transform themselves, they slip deeper and deeper into betatude, increasingly starting to feel less and less abundance, while showing more and more appeasement to their wives and girlfriends and they just slide even further down the beta channel.
I am sorry: In a broad sense, game always applies.
No shit dude.
It all comes down to one thing though... Don't turn into a little bitch.
If you're a year and a half into a relationship with a girl and you think your DHV stories and negs are keeping her around, you're really fucked up in the head. Did you ever think... "hmm? Maybe she just likes me for who I am?"
"Game" is just a front. It's an act that guys put on. It's what human beings do. We mimic other people. We are like parrots.
Ever heard the saying "you are a product of your environment"....?
All "PUA" has you do is mimic things that a guy who gets laid does and some of his personality traits that work for him. That's it. Quit being all weird about this shit. No wonder your girlfriend doesn't like you anymore. You're still trying to DHV her or whatever.
You don't have to "game" a girl if she actually fucking likes you.
Once again, it's not what you do. It's who you are.
huh? the whole point he is making is that most guys do turn into little bitches in relationships + stop being the attractive dudes they were to get the girl, then the girl loses interest. hence needing maintenance game which is obviously different from pua game but still game nonetheless.
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