if she had texted me saying she just wanted to be friends i'd have immediately responded with one word:

gay


simple, mysterious, communicates higher value, shows you absolutely do not want to be "pals" with her, a bit cocky, a bit of an asshole thing to say but not angry, throws her off, seems spur of the moment not like you've been planning it for days... it's pretty perfect as far as a response to that let's be friends line.


but again, it's FAR too late for you to salvage this my friend. your whole frame has already been nice guy, so suddenly switching gears is gonna seem weird. she's lost attraction to you. it's not a big deal, you have to learn to think about women as being easily replaceable and abundant. in truth, no one woman is that much better than all the rest.


if she texts you out of the blue again with a "hi how's it going?" then you may have a shot with her still. if not, never contact her again. have pride. it's not that you're a bad guy, you just don't know game. it's not "you" she's rejecting, it's your game. this can be fixed.

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Don't worry, I'm not going to contact her.

It sucks that it had to take messing up with a girl I really liked a lot for me to really start questioning where I've gone wrong. Because I didn't really care when I got dumped by the others. I did feel like she was much better than the rest, but of course there is always better and worse.

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Many guys struggle with being with/dating really attractive women because they are constantly worrying about her leaving them for someone better looking, or someone who has more money, or someone who is in better shape. This is straight bvllshit bro.

This comes across as jealousy and that will just drive women away quicker.

My absolute favorite thing to do when I’m feeling jelous of my girl around other guys is to remind her HOW MUCH OF A PRIZE I AM. I just make sure I continue being the awesome bold guy with unshakable confidence that she is so attracted to. Money, cars, abs and other material things aren’t what women crave.

What women CRAVE is what you are bringing to the moment she is in.

Right here.

Right now.

That’s it bro.

So lets say you are with your girl and you leave to go to the bathroom and when you come back she is talking to a couple guys you don’t know. Most guys would freak out and go into a jelous rage. Not you my self betting, action taking friend. What you need to do is go over and GIVE VALUE to the moment she is experiencing. Walk over to them and say something like, “Hey sweetheart who are these guys?" Then introduce yourself to them and throw in a conversation starter like, “Hey what do you guys think is worse for you? Marijuana or alcohol?” She will be so thrown off that you aren’t even phased about her talking to other guys that she will start feeling EXTREME ATTRACTION towards you. She’s going to realize that you truly have unshakable confidence and more importantly, she’s going to realize how much of a prize you really are. She’ll realize that she doesn’t need, nor does she want to be with any other guy.

Because lets be real, you are the fvcking prize bro, and don’t you forget it.

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Pure gold. Great info.

WOW, this thread is full of pure informative gold !!

Made me realise how F****** needy I am

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I'm glad my sorrow can be of service to someone.

It's about a month since she tried to friendzone me and I haven't contacted her at all. The only contact we had was when we ran into each other at the place where we first met. When she came in, I was sitting on a couch with another girl I was trying to game. She came over to say hello and the girl I was with got up and gave her a hug (there are lots of acquaintances at this bar). I was friendly and nice when I greeted her but didn't bother to get up. Nothing came out of the girl I was sitting with.

I was briefly mingling in the same group as the GIQ (Girl In Question, the one this thread is all about) and her one of her friends seemed unusually cold towards me (she had been very friendly while I was dating GIQ).

When the bar closed GIQ was apparently leading everyone to another venue. I had no interest in hanging out with them at that place so I left. It's been almost a month and I haven't heard back from her. I'm not holding my breath and I started seeing someone else. This one is nowhere near as hot, but kinky as hell so I'm having a lot of fun trying out new things in bed! No emotional attachment to this one so I don't have to worry about becoming needy. I know I need to find more options though. Will be working on a particular case tonight

I'm still bummed about GIQ but it gets easier by the day and I'm glad for the lessons I learned (thanks in part to you guys).

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good for you for moving on !

At least you are heaving sex, you should know how many guys are not getting laid bro hahaha

Oh I do know. I used to be one of them. Thanks to PUA I've had my dick in more pussy this year than my entire life before combined

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