Hey guys, I was studying game for the last year, but because of some circumstances I only 3 months ago started practicing. I'm doing pretty well, but it's still not really hardwired in my brain yet.
Anyway, I broke with my ex girlfriend like 3 weeks ago, we were together for almost two months.
Of course at first we were distant, but because of some incidents we came close very recently (not in a sexual way, but mostly friendly romantic) and now we are texting again on daily basis.
The thing is that I don't want to get back with her, like in a relationship, but I want to play a little bit, cause it's really funny and she is a good person.

My most important concern is how should I be with her?
The normal cool guy, acting like not giving too much shit like I usually try to be when around girls, or my sweet carying self like I was when we were together?

I want to build a more intimate relationship with her (not on a bf-gf basis again though) but I don't know if I should advance know that it's warm or go slowly.

What is the game tactic in such cases?

I appreciate your opinion.
Waiting for some feedback!
Thanx

You're going to wind up dating again.

You're already close and texting every day... and you've basically described, here, that you'd like to get more 'complicated' with her... without actually getting her back.

You want a fuck buddy?

She needs to be open to that idea for it to work - if there are feelings on either side it won't work.

A long time ago she told me she had done a fuck buddy situation before.

I don't know if I want that, but then again I'm not sure how much and what I want from her.

Anyway, I didn't come here to solve my "ex-gf" problem, if there is one.


Let's call it re-seducing an ex-girlfriend. (also from a philosophically point of view not just for this case.)

My concern is what attitude and startegy do you think is appropriate for situations like that?

in the attraction stage you need to be the aloof cool dude that isn't too sweet or friendly. in the bf stage you slowly add comforting and friendly qualities but never go overboard.

so now that you're back to flirting you should be the cool guy. make sure she texts you more than you text her, flirt with her, sexualize things, don't see her too much, etc... basically game her.

if you want to keep her a fuck buddy and not be her boyfriend you can never get sweet with her or catch feelings. but they never work out so it's a ticking time bomb until either you're back dating or she gives up, gets bored, or meets someone else.

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You must be overconfident and cocksure, even if you haven't got a god damn thing in the world going for you. And you must fail with women until you do not fear the possibility of failure, whereupon you will succeed wildly.

Just do what you're already doing. It sounds like it's working. "Don't fix what isn't broken."

As for what to do with her: Just go with the flow. If you make out, sleep together and all sorts then do it and don't feel guilty. If you want a more intimate relationship with her by way of the flow then just get with it. If you still want the fun of playing the field the answer is simple: Don't get tied down. Don't label what you have with her. If she pushes for a relationship just say you either want to wait or you're not ready to get back into a relationship. It's just that simple.

Thank you guys, you've been very helpful, now I have a plan and the right attitude.

Any other advice or different opinion is welcome.

Keep sarging~!