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PostPosted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 10:53 pm 
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Guys I need help!

So the girl I been dating for the past 6 months started being really disrespectful to me. Stopped being affectionate to me probably because I started showing my insecure side and neediness. I pulled myself together, and soft nexted her by stopping replying or calling her for a day and a half. She called 15 times and I never answered once, and just texted "busy".

The next day, she started posting Instagram pictures of her man crush Mondays to get me
Jealous. I never reacted. I didn't hear from her until late after noon when she finally texted me "were done for good. I'm serious too...I'm moving on. Bye".

I really love this girl and I feel like my soft next backfired but maybe not? What do you guys think I should respond with??? Help! Thanks...


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:33 pm 
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Do not get in touch with her in my opinion. looks so weak.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:45 pm 
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Part of the reason why we were on this position is a bit of my fault in an argument we had yesterday.

Here is what I responded with:

Her: (@3:21pm) - My phone is broken but we are done. Bye.
Her: (@3:30pm) - I'm dead serious too. I'm Moving on.
Me: (@4:31pm) - Wow...over what? Anyway...hi. Was in a meeting since noon.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:49 pm 
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She is trying to make you jealous because you no contacted her when she was being disrespectful now she is being even more disrespectful and trying to make you go begging back to her. She sounds a little crazy and the only way to deal with it is just to ignore her some more and if she comes back she needs to be apologizing for her behavior. and if she doesn't then you might have dodged a bullet.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 12:20 am 
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How was she being disrespectful before? Examples


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 12:32 am 
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How was she being disrespectful before? Examples
Snaps really easily, less affectionate, really mean at times. We had an argument because she was bring a complete bitch during text. That's when I did the soft next.

Now, even after the soft next she's accusing me of messing around. Now he tells me over text that she's going to the movies with some dude and won't be home till late. I said have fun and she replies "oh I will :)". I didn't reply.

Damn I don't know what this girls problem is. She's super over possessive of me and then treats me like crap. Me and her used to be AWESOME.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 12:41 am 
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Sounds like it's over....Sorry can't give any advice here.. It's a fucked up situation


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 1:26 am 
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Stopped contacting you little girl.

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 12:36 pm 
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Dial it back a bit with the 'disrespect'... You're not a fucking police officer (unless you are).

You're not picking her up anymore, you're in a relationship. Or you were - if you think this is your fault, apologize...

You were in a 4.5 hour meeting? Really? Not that you should have to reply to her immediately, but that sounds like a weak excuse.

You both sound like children.


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