So me and this really hot girl were in a relationship for 1 and a half years but broke up a month ago. The relationship was a bit dead for a while but she was the one who actually ended it, at the time I agreed but i didnt want to end it and it hurt and still does slightly.

Since ending we didnt speak for a couple of weeks and then she started texting me and came over for our unfinished break up sex. She just hit me up again to come over but and I was like yeah cool, she ended up not being able to come which pissed me off as she was the one who messaged me. Maybe she was just testing to see if she could still have me.

The sex last time did bring back the emotions of the break up and I am not over her by any means yet although i have slept with one other girl who was cool and good in bed.

I'm guessing turning this situation into a friend with benefits situation isn't going to be a good idea when i still have feelings. She has told me she is messaging other guys and she has said she doesn't want any feelings involved with us.

What do you guys think I should do here? It's damn hard to say no when the girl you still kinda love wants to come and have sex with you but I know its not the right thing to do emotionally.

Do whatever you want. If she just wants to have sex, then go for it. If she wants something more then let her know ahead of time what your intentions are and if she accepts than you have nothing to feel guilty about when you have sex with her.

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The problem is more about me not really being ready emotionally to only have sex with her.

Then you just answered your own question.