| Hi guys,
Been in a very good relationship for more than 2 years now, everything is good and i really like the girl. Her parents have always been a bit weird and very strict, probbaly why they don't have any normal friends. I never really liked them but tried to get along and always acted nice and polite towards them, but now they are doing something which could make me breakup with this girl.
About 5 days ago i had my girlfriend on the phone and she told me her parents were really mad at me so i asked why? She told me the following:
- I never say bye to them when i bring her home at 10 in evening. (She goes to my house and i always bring her home by bycicle at like 10 because her dad wants her home at 10, never been late in 2 years... WHY would i want to say bye to them when i have not seen them all night, she was at my place...)
- I am using her, they noticited this for the last 6 months.. (no idea where they get this from but they never see how much fun we have together, all they see is me walking on my toes in their house being afraid of saying something wrong.)
- I don't have time for her, soccer and friends go first.... (I played soccer since i was 5, i am 23 now and still play it because i love it so much, soccer might go first but when i am not playing soccer i make time for her and besides she works 3 jobs at age 18... so timewise its not always great, however we always see each other three times a week).
-I never talk when i am over in heir house (I find it hard to talk with them because her dad is always on his cellphone doing whatever the fuck he is doing, sometimes i hear crazy sirenes and gun sounds so maybe a game.. and her mother is 9/10 times making clothes/scarfs with those 2 sticks and fur) Then me and my girlfriend are sitting there watching TV, i got no idea what to tell those people.. and they dont say shit to me so i do not feel like talking there.
So after hearing all that i said to her your parents are done to me, i don't want to see them ever again. Also because they told my girlfriend to really think about our relationship and 2 days later even asked who is more important, us or him? My girlfriend was calling me up for the last 4 days barely keeping it together, she cried a few times.
If their parents did not say all this bullshit there would have been no issues whatsoever... But now that she is not allowed to see me (strict parents) and i know i did nothing wrong in my eyes i am thinking about breakup because she will be living with her parents for at least 2 more years (they are paying for her education) i don't see how this can still work.. i am seriously done with those people but i truly love my girlfriend.
Some advice off what i should do is very welcome, sorry for long story and poor english.
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