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| thule | PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 1:21 am | |
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Posts: 3 | | Long time lurker.. first time poster...
It's about 6-7 months into our relationship and my sweet girl has been acting rude and dissrespectful for a few weeks.
I've been acting calm and not letting it get to me, called her a few times on it in a playful way, and once in a stern way. She gave me the cold shoulder when I said she was being disrespectful. Told me I was overreacting and she didnt mean anything by it. But she was rude about being disrespectful, this was 2 weeks ago and the first shock... Borderline AFC...
Now this weekend was the straw that broke the camel's back, acted very rude and turned down sex. subliminal hints that i'm not taking her shit are not working. I need advice on how to approach and recover for potentially failing a shit test.
1. Tell her i need to talk, sit her down and let her know this behavior is not acceptable.. Tell her i won't take her bitchyness. give examples (good idea?)
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2. Wait till she does something rude again and then calmly confront her and walk out if necessary (teach lesson) and confront her then?
The thing is I may have failed a shit test.. Is there recovery from this? Every other time i called her on her b.s. she appologized (sincerely). Any chance i can permanently correct this or is this just a preview of the future?
i'm not affraid to loose her but i will if necessary.
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| neo87 | PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 1:45 am | |
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Joined: Sat Jun 20, 2009 1:32 am
Posts: 3904 | | More details. What are the shit tests? Give examples of 3-4
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| thule | PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 2:04 am | |
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Joined: Mon Mar 03, 2014 6:15 pm
Posts: 3 | | I ask/tell her something.. she rolls eyes and grunts (2-3 occasions) I made fun of her for it.
she asked to borrow a sweater, got pissed that it was the wrong sweater.
sulking about
the one that really got me.. I was talking to her and she rolled her eyes and just ignored me.
Anytime I say I want to do soemthing it's met with resistance.
I'm not sure if she's just a toxic person who i shouldn't even attempt with... or she's just shit testing me.
95% of the time she is super sweet, caring, and thoughtful.
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| thule | PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 2:28 am | |
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Joined: Mon Mar 03, 2014 6:15 pm
Posts: 3 | | Doing some research...
Read this " if you have tell her to change her behavior, you have mayor problems and the relationship is more than likely doomed to fail..."
Is this doomed to fail?
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