BACKGROUND

Hey guys, I haven't been on this forum in awhile.
I do have a girlfriend and we've been dating little over 3 months now.
We're both set on long term relationship and she's def. set unto me.
We're both equally committed to faith and the church but not too agressively.

She's super introverted. Very intellect based. She's not like many other girls.
She's bases her decisions and lifestyle on practicality and purpose. She
likes to give and put equal effort into the relationship which is great.
Super smart, she's top 6 in her college class right now. Very hot too

PROBLEM

Here's my little problem. It's really not a problem but it's something that I would like to address and overcome for a better relationship. She's very shy and she's one of those girls that don't really need Kino for building attraction and momentum. She has a hard time getting comfortable kissing. She likes it but like I mentioned, she feels uncomfortable.

As part of our faith background, we try to abstain from sex and all. I personally had previous girlfriends and hookups where we had plenty of sex. I've made my decision not to jump the guns with this girl. But I would like to see some little more action outside of sex. I don't even know if she even kissed anyone or had a boyfriend in the past and she's super hot. Probably because she was home schooled and went to christian schools all her life.

Also, when we text and get on the phone, I don't personally feel the rich connection versus being together in person(obvious). Even being together, I wish i knew a better way to make it more rich in quality. What should I be doing to make my relationship with my girlfriend more exciting?

Learn how to enjoy her and each others company, less so than planning things and making it all contrived.

Ya, but how do you go about doing this?


And I hv the same phone/text issue... For me, when I'm on the phone, everything feels so monotonous. When texting everything feels more like I'm playing an intense game of chess rather than just enjoying my time texting w/my girl.

You'll need to trigger some natural dopamine secretions with her.

1. Exercise together for 30 minutes or so on a regular basis to build up both of your libido.

2. Eat foods that boost up both of your natural dopamine levels.

3. Try some bungee jumping with her or some zip line adventure.

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That's some good things to do though, why I never plan to do this with a shy gf before --''

In my experience with shy girls with high education level, most off them prefer to show their love through subtle action rather than voice it out.

They are shy if you escalate on them though but if you know how to turn on a girl, get her to the point of no return , you will see a wild girl inside her, a wild girl that she always wish to release..

(I just write a tutorial on turn on a girl in my blog though, feel free to check it out).

You had to be non-judgemental about that wild girl and encourage her by complimenting her how beautiful, sexy, hot are she when she's being so.. and you like that she's being so with you.

It's take time to release that wild girl & add excitment into your relationship. So be patiend and be understood about her.

Hope this help
Naughty Napoleon

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You must be white. Don't worry I am too so i can say that.

Nope. Asian.

I find that I'm more sexually compatible with girls who exercise, are in to sport, or work at a job with some physical labor involved. I find girls with sedentary lifestyles and jobs not cut out for marathon sex which I prefer over quickie sex.

I found this Youtube video before on white male and female research subjects rating their partners' attractiveness very high after jumping off from a hanging bridge.

I've brought a few of my regulars at a nearby zip line (about one and a half hour away) for the purpose of keeping them for the long term as multiple sexual partners. Seems to work for me. It might work for the OP.

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