Been dating this girl for about 5 months now, its going great but I wouldn't say I in deep love or anything. Since we started dating I still feel I want to carry on with gaming, at the same time I know if I leaver her I'm going to really regret it

so I've thought about talking to her about it and even asking if she would want an open relationship , but I know it would come across the wrong way.

Any ideas would be nice, thought this is the type of place you would ask this shit

how old are you bro? if you're in college or early 20s i'd say live it up while you can. if you're 35 it's a different story.

grass is ALWAYS going to seem greener on the other side. when i'm in a LTR i want to fuck every single woman who makes eye contact with me. when i'm single i just want a chick i love and can trust to be waiting at home for me.

but the fact that you're not really feeling in love is pretty telling. i never cheated on women i fell in love with and was ultimately able to resist serious temptation because i cared for the girl.

not sure how to broach the topic of an open relationship. doesn't seem like it will be possible to execute that without hurting her feelings. gotta make a choice.

i'd say sit down and think long and hard about the benefits of having that girl around as a gf and realize they're all gone if you make the decision to leave her just to fuck other girls. at the same time you may fall in love with the next girl you meet...

generally though i'm of the philosophy that if you have any serious doubts or questions about a relationship then you might as well pull the trigger and be single

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18 mate, I see what your saying.

I know I'm sounding way too serious for my age and I don't want to be.
got to weigh out the pros and cons I guess

Hey man,

That "in deep love" thing really doesn't last all that long.

It'll come and go from time to time, but all in all; relationships aren't like they are in the movies. As you get older you will see that a relationship is partially a business. Too people coming together to build a family, help each other succeed etc.

Whats the point of being in a relationship at 18? What are you two being together for? Just to have someone to call a girlfriend? Whats the point of it really? What purpose is it serving? Is there any intention to get married? Have a family? Build a business etc ?

Always communicate from you gut to women, whether they like it or not; they will respect you for it.

I personally can't see myself being exclusive with anyone until I am ready to do the things I described above.

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Tell her straight up how you feel. No bullshit. You are in a relationship, she deserves honesty. Tell her how you feel and what you think you want. I never would have expected my wife to agree to an open marriage, and yet, here we are. As it is, I'm reaching the conclusion that I have been there, done that, and want to be with someone who just wants me, over all her other choices. I'm letting my wife ride it out until she either finds someone else she'd rather be with, or decides she too is done with the open marriage thing. It's been great to be able to explore all this rather than keeping each other from trying it and always wondering what it's like.

Good luck.

So I've been living with my girlfriend for several years she's smart and got a promising future and she's a a solid 8, my other girlfriend (gf2 )is a hb9 but she's young 19 and gets so much attention, but is so in love with me, crazily! (2 I know judge me all you want) gf1 the relationship is how it is after several years slowed down and no sex but I care for her a lot, and gf2, is so sexually active I'm telling you she could fuck start a space shuttle, thing is I think I don't love any of them, but I left my job because I plan on staying in the country I'm in (Germany) because my job are moving back to the uk. So living situation is a must and I can't leave myself with no where to live (I'm a jackass etc) I know! Thing is I don't think I want any of them but find it hard to leave them especially (gf1) and I still want to sarge, also there's this polish girl that said I could stay with her but instead of climbing out the hole I seem to keep digging it deeper and deeper and to make things worse gf1 friend was giving me the looks u know that look were her eyes say, (let's fuck) she's a solid 10 this is the girl I would give it all up for but since is gf1 friend it makes things complicated, and so here I am partly watching breaking bad, partly typing this message and god knows where the other half of my head is, I'm open to suggestions to what I should do? And also criticism

^ Start your own thread, instead of highjacking someone else's.^

Last thread 2012, I doubt they will mind

I think you should bang her until something better comes along then jump on the next girl as your so young! You really wanna open relationship?...not knowing who shes been banging the night before or what STD's they may or may not have!

But how about bringing the conversation around to the subject then mentioning a friend in an open relationship...and ask what her view point is?? Good luck man