Dear Members,

its already 4 years since the last time i visited any PU forum. Im 25 now and im currently experiencing really weird psychological behaviour of mine. Let me tell you first that i come from a very conservative home and always had the feeling that i need to break out of this. Thats why i chose at age 17 to start with PU and change my life. As it always is in life there have been many ups and downs, met many girls and had some good partys but all this was just the beginning of the ego road.

Besides having girls i wanted to make money so i quit college at age 22, started my own business and went traveling to several countries, living pretty much the good life.

So now please listen carefully... There is this one girl i met a few months before starting my business. Im with her for over 3 years now. She is basically the best girl you 'll find because she has a really good heart and was always there for me when life tried to f**k me over.
Now something happened to me that i started lurking for new girls, its not like i choose to but rather its instinctive.
I feel schizophrenic because on the one side i dont want to loose this person ( i met many women and someone like this is very rare), on the other hand i have this feeling again like i need to break out.

There is clearly some relation between the current situation and my life as a teenager but i feel like i need to calm down my ego but CANT. I never had this kind of situation before, because i mostly broke up with girls with whom it didnt work out but i dont want to hurt her. I know that she needs me.

The idea of breaking up with her just because of new puss makes me sad and angry. I want to be more mature about such things and especially when it comes to a special relationship like this one...

The whole situation is pretty depressing and i really look forward to some comments which share their opinion on this.

Thanks guys, Have a good one

before any "expert" comes here and starts talking about "open relationships" and messes up your relationship with that girl.. I want to ask you something..


Have you thought about getting professional help to get over the issues you had from the past?

No type of relationship can satisfy you if you are not in peace with yourself and know what you want.

maria,

thanks for your comment.
Actually i did thought about getting help but i havent made this step yet with this problem.
I watched Dr.Paul Dobransky's MindOS which explains how to be a man and how the mind works, but actually this course tells me to improve myself but with the focus on getting new girls instead of being with the one..

Still i think Dr.Pauls course is way better and more analytical than any doctors advice i had in the past, but it doesnt solve my problem.

Maybe the doctor you had in the past was not the right person for you.
Just because someone is a therapist doesn't mean that he/she can help you. You have to find the right person and the right technique that will suit your needs.
Every person is unique.
If you feel that the videos of this guy help you then go ahead and watch them. But don't reject going into deeper inner search. Read self help books, try to see what sort of help is available for you etc do whatever you can to get over the issues of the past.
Everything will help you towards becoming a better version of yourself.