I know the title makes me sound horrible but I'll be blunt: appearance and beauty is very important to me. To give a little history, I've been dating my gf for two years now and I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. Before I found her I ran game for a few years, dated some gorgeous girls, and had a lot of success. I got bored though and wanted someone that I could be happy and satisfied with. When I first met my current gf I was blown away by how much we clicked and seemed to complete eachother (cheesy I know, but it's true). On top of that, she's very intelligent, well respected, loves to cook for me, loves to rub my back, and I kid you not loves to give me head as much I love receiving it. The only thing that frustrates me is that she's not as gorgeous as some of the other girls I've dated. Don't get me wrong, she's not by any means ugly. She's tall and skinny with a great hip to waist ratio. She did some modeling when she was younger and has an eye for fashion. One problem was that she didn't like wearing makeup if we weren't going out. A big problem was that she had a very dominating feminist roommate who convinced her that makeup and appearance in general aren't important. Furthermore, in her teens she didn't like her face and would wear tons of makeup. The pendulum shifted to where she felt the only way to like her face was to accept it without makeup. I had a talk with her where I used Aristotle's Divine Mean as the basis. The divine mean states that ideal qualities are often found in the middle of two extremes. For example, we think of fear as a bad trait but it should be noted that it's complete opposite would be recklessness which can be just as bad. The ideal trait would be somewhere inbetween and based on sound judgement. Anyhow, the talk didn't go so well and it turned into a nasty fight when she realized that I wanted her to wear makeup more often. After time however, she apologized and has been wearing more makeup ever since and seems more confident. When she wears it in the manner I like I shower her with praise and attention. When she wears a more minimal amount, I say nothing whatsoever about her appearance. This seems to be helping over time. The thing now is that I would like her to undergo some cosmetic procedures. I've done character design for some animation companies and I understand perfectly why certain faces are pretty and others aren't. I know that if she had a few small adjustments to her nose and upper lip it would make all the difference in the world, not just for me but for her too since she has complained about those features in the past. I would also like her to get implants to take her from a C to a DD since that would give her a more hourglass figure (we haven't talked about breast size). My fear is how to approach it. We've been together for so long and I don't want to ruin it. I'm worried she'll think appearance is my number one concern which certainly isn't since I could easily go back to one of my gorgeous exes if that was all that mattered. I need a way for her to realize that there's nothing wrong with tweaking her appearance to look better and be more confident. Any help is appreciated.

there is nothing wrong with her tweaking it , if its for her.
good on her for not feeling the need to wear makeup every day.

you know bro, i understand it may not make sense right now. but your being a shit human being.
maybe your a shit root and your dicks not big, maybe she hates sucking your dick but says she love it for you.

iv been with the hot girl you want and they are often fucked, they are fake , make up, fake tits, that all. no spark in there eyes no cute beautiful smile.

just this faded glazed over look in there eyes.

the world has fucked women.

big tits......iv seen a lot. but he girl i cant get out of my head are ones who had that energy to them.

dont phyically change someone for you.
if you think you want that, go out and get it from someone else.
your entitled to that.
go and play the field man it sounds like thats what you need to do. the more you do that, the less make up and fake tits are important.

Cosmetic surgery is a serious surgery and can have lots of complications. It is painful and can cause lots of emotional pressure. Some cosmetic surgeons refuse to perform cosmetic surgery on some people if they are not psychologically at a place to be able to handle the alteration.
Cosmetic surgery is not a rubber tool on paint that will delete the parts that you don't like so you can re-draw them. If you watch a video of live cosmetic surgery you might get the idea of how serious this is.
The issue is not in your girlfriend's imperfections. The issue is why YOU want that perfection.
Is it that you are no longer in love with her?
Do you feel that you need her value to define yours?
What is it that makes you feel perfectionist?
Why you don't feel fulfilled in this relationship?

When you are with the right person their imperfections make you feel more attached to them because they are unique and it makes you want them more.

I can understand wanting her to wear some makeup and whatnot.

but.....


"The thing now is that I would like her to undergo some cosmetic procedures."

It sounds like you need a new woman.

This has to be one of the most selfish and idiotic posts I have seen in some time.

Put yourself in role reversal. If she told you that she needed you to make some adjustments to your face, and get surgery to make your cock just a half inch bigger because you're just a little bit smaller than she'd like, how the fuck would you deal with that.

Get the fuck off your high horse. No amount of plastic surgery is going to keep her hot forever. She's gonna get old, wrinkled and so are you. What are you going to do, dump her ass because you're worth a fucking 20 year old when you're Hugh Hefner's age?

It's one thing to support a woman change or become something SHE wants to be. It's the polar opposite to pressure her to be something YOU want her to be. Take her as she is or set her free so someone else can love her as she is. By reading YOUR words here, by what little I know, I would say you don't deserve her, and she will realize that at some point sooner or later.