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So this weekend, I went up to my friend's cottage for his birthday... And it was only 2 days away from my GF but I had a fun but also painful and unenjoyable time there because I missed her so much. She was out with a group of people, I find a horrible influence cause she happened to run in to them, and I couldn't stop wondering if she was flirting with them.
I texted her significantly more than usual and she started texting me significantly less than usual... And I felt like i was being too needy.
Please give my afc ass advice!
Make a move now or lose her inevitably..... Consider this the beginning of the end if you dont get your act together...
If you were out having fun, posting pics of your trip and wernt acting needy you would have boosted her attraction towards you and not brought it down....
Theres no quick fix answer for your question but just know your acting like the WOMAN, and shes being the MAN.. Once the roles are flipped you got some major recovering and fixing to do.
What is your purpose in life? what are your hobbies? what do you want to achieve in this life? Focus on the true purpose of your life.... The woman is supposed to be there on the ride with you while you create your empire, not the main goal and focus point.
Go game some new girls and start to get distant from her and watch her crawl back... and even if she doesnt, your focusing on you while you grow your inner game... because thats what it all comes back to... every experience is between you and yourself and what you do with the new lessons.... Keep ignoring the lessons and watch the universe cock slap you until your on your knees, depressed and miserable. Learn and grow.
Good luck