I've been on 4 dates with this one girl. Date 1 meet up for drinks Date 2 sporting event, followed by dinner Date 3 Dinner and Drinks Date 4 Dinner and Movie. We've made out after date 2, 3, and 4. I was at her spot for a little bit during the date but didn't make a move during date 4. Date 4 ended with a little make out and she said see you soon, this was Saturday night. She called Friday night to cancel the plans but rescheduled for Saturday Night. I haven't texted her since I got home Saturday night from our date, she replied I had a great time, glad you got home okay, see you soon. I know she has a lot of options, I doubt I am the only one courting her. We don't text every day and sometimes, she will text me "happy thursday or tuesday, how is your day going?".

Do you think I can text her tomorrow or Thursday to set something up for Sunday. Friday and Saturday, I'll be in Las Vegas. Wait for her to send a text...

I was thinking about sending her "Hey ghost girl, I hope you’re in good spirits today " or “Sushi time... tomorrow 6:06 PM. you GOTTA try the yellowfin roll!! from T-Mal

Thoughts? Suggestions?

ummmmm, okay, what is your goal here??

Date

If a girl is really into you, it should only take 1 date to sleep together.

Is you goal really to date ? Or is it to fuck her ? Be honest mate. If you hesitate to pull the trigger you will lose her I can guarantee that. If you are however something like 15 years old it's fine to just date.

Update: 8 dates, 3 make outs, nothing more. Shes mentioned future plans, etc. We're 29 and she is 32.

Could it be she is really a good girl or she just likes to date/wine and dined?

I'm really into her, I want to date her...I don't know where she is at.

If I mention becoming exclusive, I could push her away, thoughts/suggestions?

Have you really tried for sex?

yes, on our 7th date, I pushed pretty hard

We've had 8 dates, I tried to hang out with her last weekend but she said she was busy since she is heading to another country. I left it up to her to text me to hang out since she said maybe, we can hang out when I get back. Last date ended with a make out.

Will the freeze out work? How long do I need to wait to text her?