My game techniques felt perfect but with her it goes straight out the window. Ok so I'm 28, she's 22. I was with her 2 weeks up until yesterday. Sent a message to another girl saying that I can't see her anymore because I met and am falling for someone else because she wasn't getting the picture but accidentally sent it to my girlfriend.

Got a message off my girlfriend saying this is going too fast and it's over. Knew she was around the corner so went around to explain and made it 10 times worse. She understands but has made up her mind. I know I should probably just leave her alone now and see if she texts me.

I feel like such an idiot. We had had such a fun day together earlier that day too. What would you advise is my best chance of getting her back? I know she has an exam this morning, should I txt her good luck... If she replies don't respond? I know she's in the library after and I could get my hot pivot girl friends to hang out of me and make her jealous? What's the best strategy?
Thanks

My suggestion: don't do anything. Wait for her to contact you. There is nothing else you can do.

AFC is spot on.

The perfect shit test for a woman is when they didn't even have to create it, you stepped on your own dick.
She just wants to sit back and see how you squirm.

Being non reactive is the better option.

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As AFC said best to not do anything.

Btw, this is 2 weeks of her being your girlfriend, or just dating?

If she is your gf, and she is backing out so soon, be ready to face this time and time again.

I'm an idiot because I've acted the complete opposite to how I normally would.. Got sucked in to what feels like being needy. I was with her 2 weeks but known her 4.

I've noticed it doesn't take much to get dropped of you're a guy but women seem to get away with needy stuff a lot more. Stepped on my own sick is spot on haha

We go to the same college tho and well both have to be in the library same times. I'm thinkin of bringin my really hot friend just so I'm creating a little bit of intrigue... Would this be too obvious or is it the way to go?

You were together for 2? Did you make it official? I'm confused here

Yeah it was official... No other people. That's why I decided to drop the other girls. I had to cut out 6 other girls and one freaked out and wouldn't leave me alone. That's when I sent the text that as meant for her but my gf got it instead. She read it as me being in love with her or some shit. I made it worse by trying to explain I wasn't.

This may piss her off, but trust me it won't hurt your cause.

Do not initiate contact with your girlfriend. Wait until she initiates contact with you first!
"No Contact" will instill a fear of loss within her and keeps you from acting needy and insecure. It also gives you the time to get your shitty frame sorted out. This is extremely important. You can't get her back, unless your willing to let her go!

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Ok, why didn't you just tell the other girls you were in a relationship and just that? Probably easier that way to say "I have a gf now" as opposed to "there's a great girl I really like...blah blah" which can come off as dickish.

Practically speaking 2 weeks to go bf/gf is pretty fast. She is 22 so super emotional and will do hot and cold because in the end she does not know what she wants. If/when she comes back, I'd say take it slow. From my experience, these younger girls don't know what they want so take everything with a grain of salt. I can promise you that if you do get her back, she will pull the same shit again.

Agreed

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Well I've gotta go the library anyways. I figure any reaction is better than no reaction from her.
Yeah I guess I was a bit of a dick but I'd been ignoring the other girl for 3 weeks after telling her it was over I was still waking up to 15 msgs in the morning. I had to have her get the point. At the same time it might have been a Freudian slip by sendin it to my gf by lettin her know how I feel.. Not on purpose but maybe on an unconscious level. Personally if I had gotten that txt. I would take it as a compliment.

Bullshit Freudian slip, your hot and sexy vibe is got its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions.

Own it.

As Neo said,take everything with a grain of salt.
Let the water pass under the bridge, do as YOU please.

At that age if your girlfriend was a video game she would be rated E for everyone.

Take the opportunity to bang the old one, or the new library one.

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