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What's the problem? She just doesn't like kissing in public. It makes her nervous. That's a problem with her not you.
The only way to stop this behaviour is to desensitise her to PDAs as in take control and kiss her in public however you'll have to make each time enjoyable for her so she sees reward in it. Think of it as positive reinforcement having her enjoy the kiss in public. Gradually she'll grow accustomed to it and think nothing of it.
Generally what I do is treat random and spontaneous kisses as moments you know the kind of moments women harp on about in romance novels -- spontaneous, care free, exciting. It's all down to you simply being blind to your surroundings and treating the girl as if she's the only person there. She'll get drawn into it and get a high from it.
She said I'm her second real boyfriend so maybe she's unaccustomed to the whole showing affection.
I understand, although it seems like I'll be fighting fire with fire. Doing something that makes her uncomfortable. I guess I have to so we can progress.