Had a fantastic time with a girl this weekend. Before she left back home I told her she's amazing, she smiled and drove off. I felt myself gettin a bit soft on her which is what I know leads to excitement and attraction dropping, so I need some tips on that.

I'm a very direct and honest guy, I love to tease, but if I like someone in a relationship (particularly in the beginning) I have a bad habit of saying it which makes the other person get used to it I know.

For you dudes in relationships how often do you talk about your true feelings for your chick when it's just you two?

Do you tell her she's great (or whatever word you use) often or never?

If she asks about how I feel should I turn that into a tease or honesty about my thoughts.

We must have spent 5 hours just cuddling after intense fucking before. It felt good, just relaxed and talked about what we have in common and what we don't. I would say things are great right now, but I need some advice on how to stay unpredictable / not so sensitive / and whatever else may help. This goes against the way I was brought up, but would love to change it for myself mainly and partly for her.

Many would say I should spend time on inner game, but I feel quite confident about this now.

Any advice would rock. Love to hear what you guys do and have to say.

Sounds awesome man!
Next time just make sure you tell the girl you love her after you fuck her for the first time.
Just kidding, I'm also interested to hear opinions on this matter.

_________________
What would James Bond do?

I thought telling her I want to get married and have babies would be more appropriate. I've heard "ass on the streets, gent in the sheets.", but I am looking for more advice/clarification from others.

Adjust to her. On average chase her just a little bit less than she chases you.

Or: just be yourself. And if she doesn't like it, move on.

I tell my girlfriend she is sexy / pretty / awesome quite often. When I like what she does. When I don't like something I tell her that I don't like her behaviour.

One thing I don't do is to expect her to respond. Because I am just being genuine. Worked so far.

Dear The Mellow

Tell her how you feel about her, be sincere, always be, but also know if she is ready for your feelings.
If you're thinking about marrying and she thinks it's a flirt, that could be a bummer.

Tell her anything, as long as you mean it, then they dig it even more.
Being honest is key, especially when you're looking for a Long Time Relationship.

If she is talking serious, she wants to be taken serious, so I would say react depending on the situation ,
If she is really serious about it, understand her, listen to her, and tell her honest how you feel, don't come over needy or desperate, that's important, tell her how you feel, play it cool.

You can always throw in a little tease if you want, but it's really depending on the situation.

My perspective on this
Will.