Hi

I’ve just had sex for the first time ever, woop woop! But I would really like to get some tips and also check some things if that’s possible? I’m eager to learn. Here’s the things I’m wondering about

1. We used a condom but I couldn’t feel much. I could only feel some resistance when it felt like I was hitting a ridge. We did it missionary and I think I was thrusting downwards and may have been catching the bottom of her vagina?

2. She kept pulling my bum down. Was this in response to me thrusting downwards in 1?

3. Do you always have to try and get the girl off? After I finished I got up and washed and then went back to bed with her.

4. She has told me she likes having her breasts played with, the rougher the better. What can I do for this?

5. She says she likes my hand rubbing her pussy. Is there anything I can do to get her off with my hand as she doesn’t like me going down on her?

Cheers

Hey Bob,

I would suggest you look up "The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose" for a good coverage of sex (both physical & mental). Back when I was just getting into things years back I read a ton of books regarding sex & different positions. It would also be good to add some massage skills eventually (look up free videos online).

For condoms, I would recommend Okamoto Crown Condoms (World Famous Super Thin and Sensitive Condom). These are the best you can find, a lot of porn stars use them as well. I now purchase them 100 at a time for $15 on Amazon (if you search you'll find them).

- Lucas

Hey Bob, I think I can help. I apologise in advance for the explicit language and graphic images .

If you want the girl to enjoy having sex with you and probably even have stronger feelings for you, yes you should get her off.

With regards to the breasts, lick her nipples and suck them hard. More importantly, bite her nipples a bit, she will fucking love it if she is the kind of girl who likes nipples play (which she says she is), but be careful with your teeth. Also, try sucking her breast (so not just the nipples) into your mouth, as much as you can, and then lick her nipple while her boob is in your mouth, and when taking her boob our of your mouth, suck her nipple with just your lips (no teeth) and stretch it as hard as you can through sucking and then let go.

As for her liking her pussy being rubbed, fuck her sideways (spooning position), and while fucking her pussy, put one hand on her clit and start rubbing it. Very easy and basic. If you want to really give her a mind-blowing time, slide your other hand underneath her body and reach for her tits, then pinch her nipple, rub her clit, and fuck her pussy all at the same time.

If you want to feel more using a condom, try going slow, especially in the beginning. I find that I can feel much more when I am slow... I think you can also feel more when you thrust upwards rather than downwards, but I never paid attention to that so I am not sure.

Hope this helps .

when i was new to the thing i would have a hard time cumming for some reason, guess due to condom.

And really it was an psychological issue, it had gone away after a month or two of intensive sexual life. Probably i got my emotions and comfort settled down. Sex is a psychological thing as well as it is physical - also for males

And a bonus from captain obvious. Do whatever you have to do, but never take a condom off with a new girl and/or when there are no other contraception methods included. No matter how tempting it is, you don't want to ruin your time. I know it is obvious but i am posting this anyway

first off, congrats brother! I've got a little bit of a routine, but it also depends on the mood I'm in. FOREPLAY is key to having mind blowing sex if ya ask me. Tease her and look her in the eye and bit your lip.. Confidence is key as well. To me, sex is all mental. Teasing and Neck kissing while pulling her hair back always gets them in the mood! every chick is different, and they all like different things. The last girl I hooked up with left me with bruises, bite marks and a swollen lip... Now that's not my style, but it got her off and the sex was awesome! As far as condoms go, they suck ha. But you'll thank your future self for using one.

Cheers,
Eric

Hey guys thanks for all the advice, really interesting and I'm gonna try it out hopefully this weekend!

Can I ask about her clit, is it right at the top of where her two lips meet? I've read that it's very sensitive, is it ok to rub her clit directly, or do you rub around it?

Thanks

rub all of that man ha! Ya don't got to be gentle either. Was it her first time too?