Hey fellow PUAs and AFCs,

I have a bit of an issue with a bit of a back story.

On new years of this year my roommate and I threw a wicked party. Lots of drunk people lots of fun. Well, this one girl that I use to work with came up to me near the end of the night and started making out with me. Like just build up or anything. So I slept with her that night.

That night was also my last night in town as I would be moving away for coop for 4 months. And we haven't talked since.

Now that I have about a month and a half left in my coop before I move back I have really been thinking about having her as a FWB or even just hooking up with her again. And that's where I need you guys.

Since I've never has this opportunity before I don't know how to move forward. Should I wait until the day or week before I'm back in town and ask her bluntly? Should I mention it now and then she know I want to do it? Or should I play it cool, try for a date and then escalate there?

Any advice, ideas or even your owns stories would be extremely helpful.
Thanks

I would contact her a few days after your back in town and set up a date. I dont think you have to state anything bluntly for her, just make sure to shoot down any ideas of getting into a relationship, so that she knows this is not a serious commitment. Everything else after that should be implicitly clear.