I made a previous post bout a different thing wit da same girl but sadly didnt get any responses.
Seeing a HB8 for a few months now, she's from an Indian background (We're in Australia) and as such, has been gettin pressured into an 'arranged' marriage of sorts which means that we may have to end it as she has to meet these 'suitable vendors'. wtf yeah? Anyway, this girl was extremely close to me and had extremely high levels of attraction up until last Sunday where after I questioned her on her erratic behaviour that she explained to me what was going on (the marriage crap). I don't plan on getting married for atleast another 2-3 years but her parents went her to get married within a year or so. She explained this a week ago.


On topic, she has been extremely cold and distant over the last 10 days and especially when we met up but when I call her out on it, she suddenly breaks down crying sayin that she doesn't mind the whole marriage thing but can't stand the idea of seeing anyone else apart from me and is crying because she loves me that much and is behaving like a bitch and being cold to push me away so that she doesn't get closer to me as she would not be able to go through with all this otherwise.

I reacted by maintaining composure and calling her out on the fact that if u actually care about me, stop being a bitch and acting cold if that's not how u really feel and if ur gonna be bitchy and cold towards me, stop telling me your in love with me and you can't see yourself with anyone else. If she continues down this path of being cold I'm gonna walk away n thats it coz I can't keep up with that bullshit. Logically that makes no sense at all to me so does anyone have any advice?

I wanna see this girl for atleast a few more months. While this has to end, I don't want it to end just yet (yes I do have one-itis). What do I do?

Also she lied to me last week. She met up with someone on Thursday, was acting really suspicious about it and lied to me about who it was when I asked her. (I'm almost 100% it was one of those random 'arranged marriage' people that she met up with).

What do I do?

By that I mean do I play really cold, meet her often but be really flirty etc.
Do I wait for her to text me first or text her first? I wanna get this girl chasing me again

Dude sorry for you man, but you need to give more details. She will marry another guy for 100% because of her background?

If that is the case, get yourself out of that situation...

If she is just supposed to do so then we can discuss.

Sorry for you man, its a fucked up situation anyways. I dont think its about gaming here...

Cheers

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Thats the link to another post I made about this girl (asking for different thing there so made a separate post).

She lives in Australia with me but is originally from India. When she went back she was getting harassed by her family to get married and so was her dad. She wants to end it coz she is willing to agree to the marriage just to make her dad happy
(her mum passed away when she was young so she feels obligated not to add additional stress to her dad)

So its not that she has too, just that she feels 'obligated' to. She turned damn cold recently and has been real bitchy and her reasoning is that she is trying to push me away n make me hate her so that I will leave. I wanna keep seeing this girl (Atleast for a few more months if it has to end eventually) so I presume I need to have her chasing me again. How do I get that happening?

This girl used to drop by my place every chance she got after work etc. etc. and suddenly now she's giving me excuses as to why she can't see me. I don't behave like it phases me but honestly, it does and its kinda frustrating.

Sexually escalate and then bang her real good.

How?

When she pulls that crying over shit act, get her close, let her cry to your chest, pat her back, rub her back gently as you go down her ass but don't grab her ass, covertly rub the sides of her breast, stroke her hair, stroke her face...

Do this for some 20 minutes and then make out. When you're making out, try to rub her nipples. If you're good there, progress to her thighs and pussy area.

You get the drift.

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I tried that the last time (a few days ago), it worked damn well. After sex we had a shower together and she was god damn affectionate and interest levels through the roof. I kinda fucked it up since then by pulling some emotional lines and a semi-ultimatum on her coz I found out she was seeing another dude later in the week that she didn't tell me about n that got me annoyed (Didn't call her out on the lie though).

Saw her on the weekend, tryed the same thing again but this time got ridiculous amount of resistance. She would kiss me for a few seconds then constantly kept pushing me away and told me not to kiss her (kinda caught me off guard but I pulled back, acted indifferent to it and trying again abit later). After a while though she finally shifted my frame and I got annoyed n just stepped out of the room real quick so she couldn't see that I was getting frustrated with it all. came back in and she noticed that I was annoyed.

The Dialogue I got which I realized was sorta true was "whenever im in a bad mood, ur in a good mood. Whenever your in a good mood, I'm in a bad mood." which seems to be true.

Im starting to think that im letting this girl walk over me a little bit just because I like her. I thought It was just me being indifferent but more I view it the more it seems like me letting her get away with her bad behavior instead of me just being 'indifferent'.

Also from the day we started seeing each other, we have never gone a full day without contact. SPAM its in evening and I havent got a text from her (She's been online all day so she's purposely not messaging me, not that she hasnt viewed her phone). I thought me going NC was the way to go but not sure if that will help the situation SPAM. Whats ur best advice regarding that?

I asked this girl to meet me on Monday coz I was already out and about but she said she can't coz its her friends bday and she's gonna spend the entire day with her (Its a terrible excuse coz she isnt that close to this girl) and asked to see me Tuesday instead. I said ok for now but would honestly rather see her tomorrow.

Should I text or randomly call with some interest grabbing routine of sorts or just continue NC or what do i do?

You need to improve your sexual technique so girls will always see your terms in a very favorable light.

Based on the details you gave, you're not banging her that good. Just let this one go and move on. When you become very good at the sex department, you'll almost always get your way.

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Not talking from ego but from a serious point of view.

I gave this girl her first multiple orgasm, she has an orgasm every time we have sex (She gets really frustrated when she doesn't have one which has happened before but its extremely obvious when she does have one so I'm not worried that she's faking it).
Also done alot of stuff sexually with her that she hadn't done/agreed to do before (she mentioned several times that she has done stuff with me that she had refused to do with anyone else).
Kinda weird but I try to make the other person feel as good as she possibly can when we're sexual because the better she feels, the better she makes me feel so I'm not sure how to improve on that coz I already look online for tips to always keep improving haha, any advice? I'm starting to think that its an escalation/timing issue She has mentioned before that I try to initiate at bad times but I play it off as sex should be unexpected and anytime not planned for when she is in the 'mood' and have set that frame from the very start. We've been intimate every single time we have met up until these issues hence I'm confused.

On the other spectrum though she hates having sex or being physically affectionate when she's upset. She gets really 'Do not touch me, I need space' and pulls away whenever she is upset so could it be due to the fact that we have these issues going on at da moment?

Also, after this drama I went NC with her today expecting to hear from her as we havent gone 24hrs without contact b4 but strangely haven't heard from her either (she's probably waiting for me coz its been a week or 2 since I've initiated a conversation). Do u think I should initiate contact with her? Its at night now so If I leave it much longer she'll be sleeping n I'm not sure if she realises why im going NC

A girl that you banged real good will always come back for more and/or do nice things for you.

That.

Simple.

Just move on and improve your bedroom skills.

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