A little background: I met this lady online about a year or so ago. IMO, very attractive lady, probably about HB 8.5 on any scale.
After I first got her number there was a lot of banter, we planned a date, but I/we never really followed through. Every other month or so we'd start talking again, either through text or Facebook, but I'd always lose interest because she always seemed kind of flakey, and I live about 30 miles. So I didn't want to drive out there, take her out, and waste my time.
All of a sudden, last Monday, I get the following message from her. Below is out correspondence from Monday till Friday night:
HER:
You still owe me the zoo! Flaky texter! Lol
Me:
hhmm. haven't we done this before?
HER:
LMAO we've touched on the subject but....
Me:
whenever. im off every weekend.
Her:
Awesome lol well what are you doing this weekend night?
Me:
Hopefully watching movies with a cute virgo chick.
Her:
Wow, cute huh? Aww shucks LOL. I'm down, what time are you off work?
Me:
About 5:00 if i'm lucky
Her:
Do you drink?
Me:
Only expensive whiskey and carona.
Her:
How have I not dated you? Lol Beer, pizza, and TrueBlood? Awesomest sounding date lol
Damnit! How the hell did you know?!
Me:
Ok.. Don't forget black heels and lingerie!
Her:
Pink or black? Lol
Lol you're killin me
Me:
idk... bring both!
Her:
I will wear pink and black! (for the record she did not bring lingerie, but had pink and panties and a matching bra)
Me: I need to be up at 5:30 for a meeting. I hate to be flakey... But I need to.
Her:
Okay I'll check lol you too! Sweet dreams
That ended on Thursday. We texted all Friday, up to the time she got to my place. It was the first time we really hung out.
We watched a few episodes of a T.V. show, and I was getting ioi's left and right. So I knew I'd better do something. I ended up kiss closing her, then within 15 minutes of that f-closed her!
She left after about two hours of sex, laying in bed and talking... etc....
I fell asleep before she got home. She texted me letting me know she made it all right. Then I texted her the next afternoon telling her I fell asleep.
Now we're back to square one! All her text replies are coming if kind flakey and indifferent. I've only texted her once since Friday. Once in the after noon, replying to her text from the night before. To which she responded, "LoL I kinda figured.".
Then I hadn't heard anything from her all day, so I texted her with:
I hope you're smiling! If not just think of me!
Her reply:
LoL Thanks!
I think the fact that I actually have some feeling for this woman is throwing my game off. I actually WANT to talk her! Not just to try and screw her again. I cannot figure out if she is interested in anything more than a one nighted though. :-/
How should I pursue this? I have not even talked to her on Facebook, since the last text yesterday. I've just been posting random shit (once or twice), that I know will get a lot of response form other women on Facebook to try and make her a little jealous.
How should I pursue this?????
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