Hey guys. (questions in bold)
Let's start with a brief introduction. I am a Belgian (for the Americans: Brussels is our capital) student who is currently enrolled in an exchange programme abroad. So basically I have been studying in Spain since september and I will stay here untill mid february.
During my exchange period I met a girl whom I really liked. As I did not want to make the mistake to fall in love abroad, things started off slowly but after a while we started meeting more.. It's been about 3 months now that we are meeting very regularly, almost daily, she sleeps over at least twice a week, we cook for each other, we hold each others hands, we kiss in public, etc. So currently we are acting as if we are in a real relationship although we do not really know where this is going and I do not know if this really is a real relationship.
Because both of us don't want to be confronted with what's going to happen when I return to Belgium we do not really talk about it. We tried to talk about it a few times (when we were drunk) but both got really emotional.
Although we act like if we really are a couple we do not really call each other sweet names or never say 'I love you' for example. (I did say this once when I was drunk) I do not really know if we both do not say those things because we know this might not lead to anything or just because nobody wants to be first.
So basically we are in a relationship, but then again not really.
The thing is I really like this girl and really consider a long-distance relationship. But I am not sure how she thinks about it.
I know I have to start the conversation about the future but do not know what is the best way to pull this off, any suggestions ?
Moreover, I want to make the last 4 weeks I am still here to be very memorable. I want her not to forget me that quickly and create a stronger desire for her to want me. Basically I was thinking to use a sort of "Pua-bouncing" method (see
http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/bounce/). I want to try to visit a lot of places and experience a lot of things together. This will cause her to have more memories in more different places and will make it harder for her to forget me.
What kind of experiences, activities, places to visit, things, .... are a great way to do this ?
Things I thought about:
- Bungyjump
- Skydiving
- any adrenaline related activity
- Travel together in Spain
- Travel together to other countries nearby
- have dinner at different places
- wake up early and watch the sunset together
- have sex at unconventional places
- go to a concert together
- ...
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