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I have strategy. I built my personality to be the least jelous motherfucker on earth. Seriously... Gf leaves with her ex for few hours. Gf leaves with former fuck buddy for few hours. No problem. I just don't care. Sometimes shit can happen with me too and I can do things I initially didn't want to, so I'm not gonna be mad at her for this. It works pretty well, because sooner or later, said guys will wonder why the fuck is it not a problem for me that she is hanging around with them. And when they ask it from my girl, it is all over at that point, because they have literally drawn it that I'm better than them. This happened with both of them.
Now you could say: Yeah dude, but you can never know if she cheated before that or with someone else.
That's true. But I just don't care. I have special politics about cheating. I don't really give a fuck if it was a one timer, even if with 40 different men, if it was just once, I don't give a crap. I'll start getting mad, when I find out she has a lover. Because that's consequent cheating and means that something is forming between them. Why am I doing it like this? Easy... she's not my wife(at least...not yet) I just want both of us to be happy in the relationship, and if it involves fucking dozens of other men for her, I won't fucking stop her, as long as she's not putting it in my face(that's a challenge...and means something is bad) or keeps a lover(that's pretty much relationship over) Oh... just for the sake of completion. It's not like my relationships are like this. And kind of the reason behind this, is this not giving a crap mentallity.
+1. When I was in my early 20's I used to be really jealous of other dudes banging my chicks. Now im in my late 20's i dont give a shit. Too much hassle. If your dicking her down and got her mind under control shes is yours forever.