Hey Guys

I'm in a long distance relationship with a mid twentys Dutch girl (I'm 25, we met while she was working abroad). We're in love and the plan was that early 2014 that she'd come back to my country to live. I thought that was great (this girl is really worth making a LDR work) but it'd mean that we were going to have to survive like 8 months without seeing each other. So I made a choice to go live in Holland for 4 months (where I'm @ now) to ease the pressure, get to know her Dutch family better, but also to avoid the temptations of cheating, etc etc.
When I first told her I was coming to live there, she was so happy she was literally crying.
But now that I'm here, some shit's going weird. Now I'm solid at pretty much all aspects of PUA, but I do need some advice.

What's been happening is that after the first couple weeks of moving in together here in Holland, I can tell she's starting to lose passion and flame for me. Like back when we were together in my home town, we were total sex machines, but now, she quite honestly seems like she doesn't even want sex that much, and for me to get sex I always have to initiate it forcefully on her. Our sex is great though, every time I give her huge O's, but it's like she doesn't really WANT it bad any more like she used to.

Now I know the thing about not giving yourself and all your time away to your woman so easy and how that can ruin attraction, etc etc but it's hard for me because I'm totally new to town, living in a kind of isolated/low populated village, and have to spend a good deal of time at home while she works. But I'm not stupid, I don't just sit around home all day waiting for her to come home. I've done things like joined a gym here, go exploring around the city by myself, planned trips to other EU countries, I'm learning guitar and spanish (though I'm doing that at home by myself), and do spontaneous things with her, etc. I've also social proofed my FB page (she's big into Facebook), but NOTHING I'm doing seems to be getting that spark back into her that used to be there.
It's strange because everything I do, I try to do with an Alpha Male mind Set. My personality is not pussy at all, I'm playful, teasing, cheeky, spontaneous and can lead, but I feel like I need to do more, and especially get out of the house more.

So I want to hear advice about where I went wrong, and what to do next to get that RAW ATTRACTION back in our relationship. Is it because she has me too easily now? Should I stop giving her so much affection and make her work for it a little more? Should I stop initiating sex with her and when finally asks for it, say no to show I'm in control, then later do it on my own time? Should I be trying to fill my time with more things and get out of the house more?

Thanks for any advice/suggestions/input.

The mistake you made was to give up your life to move in with her. I'm not saying it's not going to work because I know people who did the exact same thing as you and it worked out for them. You will have to work on yourself not to get too needy in this situation.

You are doing the right things by establishing a life for yourself there. Keep on doing that to a point where you wont' rely on her to have fun. It will take time. In the meantime try not to be a whiny bitch.

Also you really need to communicate to her openly. If the lack of sex bothers you tell her. You seem to be worried about the amount of sex you are getting. Which to me shows that you rely too much on her to validate you. If you move in with someone, sex will be likely less.

My suggestion is get out of the house, make new friends, new hobbies, join a gym a class whatever. But be home less and spend less time with her.

If I didn't move in with her then the relationship would have ended. I don't have oneitis or can't get other girls or think that she's more valuable than me in the relationship, it's simply that I've gone though a swamp of women and found this one is *the one*.
Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think I look to her for validation. With the sex thing it was more an alarming observation that we went from having sex like 2-5 times a day to 2 or 3 times a week, and even then it was a difficult to get her in the mood.
I'm going to try to do what you've said. I've just signed up for an extra gym class, and going to try to make some extra friends here and get out of the house more, and be less available to her. Also I'm going to be less cuddly and affectionate, so that she comes to me for affection/validation.
I will do an update later!