My girlfriend went to Uni and as a result, says she doesn't feel the same.
She lives a massive distance away now.

She broke up with me and I don't want to ever get back with her.

What can I do to get my life back on track and beat this heartbreak?

Thanks!

Breakups happen to the best of us. Actually, they're a normal part of life. It's important to cut yourself some slack when you're feeling vulnerable and rejected. Let yourself mourn the loss.

Take a week, or two. Make a deadline.

Exercise, work out, go do that thing you always wanted to do, but she sucked up all your free time or hated it.

Being single gives you back the freedom to do what you want, when you want. Watch a big ass butt fuck porno movie you would never admit to spanking it to.

Delete her off your cell phone. surgically remove her, shit can her pictures (except the naked ones, PM those to me!) deleting those tearjerker mushy emails and messages begging her back. Delete her from Facebook or whatever. Get shit faced pissy drunk with your Bro's and go hoggin, you'll be amazed how much better you'll feel.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and GFTOW.

Your not alone, your not singled out.

Remember that hot blond at the 7-11 giving you those fuck me eyes? Well now you can do something about it.

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I feel you brother. I am in the middle of a break up myself and it aint easy to deal with.

I agree with Heywood that you need to get your life back on track. I am trying to do the same thing. The hardest thing I think is not going to that place in your head where you imagine what she is doing. We all know that women definitely have it a bit easier than we do when it comes to going wild. She can just raise her hand and get laid if she wants. In my case we are still in close quarters so we see each other come and go and it doesnt take much for jealousy to rare its ugly head; at least in your case you wont bump into her. The key though to those feelings I think is to keep in mind that whoever she is with, he will get the same thing you got. She isnt changing herself for him either. She may be that cool as chick that you once fell for at first, but if he commits she will go back to the same shit that drove yall apart. (That is another one of my problems now too. I dont know why once we decided to split she became so cool and exactly what I loved before. Why women feel the need to change everything and fuck it all up once you are 'serious' is beyond me.)

Anyways, just hang in there and allow yourself some time. I personally have no interest in getting anyone else 'serious' for a while. Getting laid does sound nice but again I will give myself some time to recoup and get my inner game straight again. I am working out and eating better and just focusing on getting back to being comfortable with myself. It is only when you are totally okay alone and with yourself that you can offer something good to anyone else so make sure you get that shit straight first.

Solid posts, thank you guys.

I have pretty much cut her out of my life.

She's blocked on facebook but we're keeping eachother's numbers because we're still friends.

We're not contacting eachother though.

Thanks!

Most high school kids get together through proximity, social positioning, and a dose of hormones. . . actually, I suppose this is how the whole World meets, fucks, and calls it love. This is the passive route. . . it's the path of least resistance. Even the rebel types essentially leverage their proximity and social positioning to do the opposite of what is expected of him. I won't go as far to say that ^these situations can't be special. Hey, billions of people of the World can't be wrong . . . but do the math. Billions of people all around the World and you're going to be with the girl you went to high school with for the rest of your life? . . . Because you're "soul mates?" Such couples are definitely mates of 'geography' and mates of 'social circles' but that soul mate thing is a bit far fetched.

Hey, I'm not going to tell you one is better than the other but the path of the PUA is a bit different. Because all other things being the same, the PUA is not bound by geography or his position within his social group to date that "well-fitting" girl that makes everybody go, "Ohhh. . . what a perfect couple!" . . . or, "Oh my God, those two are psychos." - which ever one is your preference. As a PUA, you have your own code and your own abilities to strike up a girl who you fancy, anywhere or whoever she maybe . . .

Your ex already has 50% of ^this figured out. However, I'll give you 1,000 to 1 odds that all she did was replace her old geolocation and old social circles for a new geolocation and new social circle to rely on a mate. Meaning . . . she is going to fuck people out of her social circle, who obviously attend her school, in that same ol' town, because somebody suggests that they make a good couple, or he tells and she tells and he tells and she tells and they agree.

^Soul mates?