Hello Guys,

I am 34 years old, and got a few relationships in the past. In July, I've met a girl which I felt in love and it was reciprocal, it was like that he were made for each other.

Nevertheless we don't have a life in common, and we do live 450km from each other. We used to spend the weekends together, and man we had the best times together...

So our relationship had become stronger and stronger, over time, and eventually we got huge problems in saying goodbye: - we never knew when and how we would see us again. that make us hurt. we miss each other everyday.

So we took a mutual decision (first my idea) as our relationship could never improve: we would only become friends.

Now why I need your guru's expertise:

The girl keeps calling me everyday, and I do like to talk to her and never ask her to stop. Indeed we spend like 30 minutes in the phone eachday, talking about your day life stuff.

Yet, it's not helping me getting over, as I was really in love with her. I cannot find out why she's doing it. Perhaps she wants to keep in touch? Perhaps she think the separation is the best, but her heart say's it's not?
She wants to be my best friendship and have sex from time to time?
She feels alone?

She is much older than I, but shes very hot, like HB7/8 and has no problem at all getting mans.

Eventually, I am meeting other girls, but sometimes I feel like she's the one.

Why will it never be more than it is? If you love each other, why will neither of you relocate?

Think of the answers to these questions every time you start to long for it to be more, and tell her the same thing when she does.

I had a full blown affair. We've tried being friends after the fact, it's difficult at best. Takes a lot of growing up to learn how to control your emotions and keep things in balance. If you quit fucking her, that will help move in a friendship direction. You don't fuck friends, you fuck lovers.

Those are the only tips I have for you. As far as her? She's calling you because she misses you, if you transition to a new role in her life other than what you have been, there is a loss for her.