First of all, I don't have anything against people who drinks. It's just I don't like girls who drink.

I was addicted to alcohol myself and now I don't drink for almost 2 years.

We are together for more than a year now and she always said to me how she doesn't like to drink and that she doesn't drink.

A few nights ago we went clubbing and then booom surprise motherfucker - when I met her in a club she was drunk and when I asked why she started drinking she says because she likes it! Now I understand she just started uni and shit but there can't be any excuse because she was telling me all the time that she doesn't drink.

I already told her that it is making me upset when she drinks but she just replied that she can take of herself and changed topic straight away.

If she lied about drinking all this time how can I trust her now on other stuff? And more importantly should I even try to stop her drinking?

Why don't you want her to drink?

Dude, anyone who says they don't like drinking and won't drink without having drank will always end up like Amanda Bynes.

Don't be a moron. She's allowed drink, it's normal, it's legal and it shouldn't an issue. What should be an issue is if it has an effect on you, i.e. her drinking influences you so you fall off the wagon. If that's the case then talk with her about it and if she won't support you then you have to start thinking about ditching this girl because an AA can't be around that kind of shit without serious risk of relapse.

What's the difference? Everyone has their own values, some don't want a girl who had devil threesomes, I don't want a girl who drinks. If she would have mentioned to me before at least once that she likes to drink I wouldn't even be with her now.
Already told her how I feel about her drinking but it seems that she doesn't give a shit.

There's a difference. Some people don't want their girl to drink because of trust issues. Some (like you) may be a recovering alcholic, and not want someone who drinks around them. The problem is that you may want her not to drink entirely, or you may just want her not to drink around you.

Anyways, was this a one-off thing or has she been hiding it? Its unclear about whether you think she has been drinking at uni behind your back or if she was just drinking one night. Hence, it can be different situations. As GamesN said, she's allowed to drink and I dont see how she's bad if she did it once. It's different if someone PROMISED you they won't drink and if someone said they don't and don't like it. I don't smoke weed, but sure one night if the mood is there and I'm chilling I may smoke with some people. I don't drink beer and dont like beer, but when at the game with friends I may have a beer. Does that mean I like to drink beer?

IMO, if I were you and I didnt want my gf to drink it would be because I shouldn't be around it. But if she goes out on her own now and then and drinks I won't have a problem with it.I guess if you're living together having someone come home smelling of alcho could be a different issue.

To be honest, if she does drink occasionally, you're not going to stop her from drinking when you're not there. Especially in school. And she has proven that she DOES drink. If you can live with a girl who will drink but not around you, then fine, if you can't then walk away now

Then end it man. If she doesn't care and she knows you're a recovering alcoholic then you need to ditch this chick.

every person has to come to terms with their own vices.

imagine not believing in god and someone coming along telling you your wrong and becomes very persistent about it. (would annoy anyone)

If her drinking doesn't effect your sobriety and your strong enough to be around it, you have to understand that she may never been much of a drinker before and it's something she has to learn for herself. you don't want to be her parent.

honestly did you listen to everything your parents said?

you need to take this from a perspective of how it effects your relationship.

right now I see your concerns:

firstly you have it understood that "I drink deal with it" and she changed the subject. thats not to say she didn't just start recently. there are alot of people who didn't get into such things until after highschool. It's part of the journey of defining ones self. shes trying to break free of the mundane restrictions life puts on us when we are young

secondly, not sure if this is a concern of yours or not, is not having a girlfriend who drinks because you don't want to be around it. society's biggest money income is spent on 4 things, drugs, guns, sex, and booze. If its your girlfriend or not you are gonna be around it. You have to ask yourself can you allow her to figure this out for herself and be around it.

Thirdly, this wasn't even mentioned but maybe your thinking it. you quit alcohol, and your reasons for this are yours. you had beliefs in why you should quit. Don't assume anyone else who drinks will have the same problem with it as you. If it gets to a point where she drinks all the time and it annoys you yes I can understand that can be a problem. But if it hasn't become a huge issue, then don't assume the boat will sink just because it's called the titanic.

In my opinion Op's main concern is that she may be not telling the truth about other things. She may not want to talk more about the subject because she doesn't want you bringing down her experimentation.

Thanks for replies guys.

It bothers me even if she drinks when I am not around because I know that in the end she will become ugly fat whore.

She goes out very often like 3-4 times a week, so drinking that often will lead to addiction.

But anyway I will just go with the flow and see how it goes. Got some more serious life problems now so all this GF bullshit seems like a joke now. But thanks anyway!