What's up guys. So I'm not 100% sure that these are jealousy ploys or not but I can only assume because its gotten more prevalent since we've started dating. The thing is, my girlfriend knows about my past (ons, random hookups, bars/clubs, etc.) and I'm pretty sure part of the reason we haven't had sex yet is because she feels intimidated (she said this) and that she feels like its her one trump card with me because other than that she has nothing to offer (which is not true to me) and might end up like another hookup. Here's the deal, whenever I'm at her place with her roommates, inevitably the topic of hot guys comes up one way or another. Sometimes it'll be celebrities, or other guys on campus, or her "ideal type"; either way she never made comments like these freshman, sophomore, or last year when we were friends. Now, at first it didn't really bug me and I didn't really care but lately I've been wondering if I should be more proactive because to me its not about jealousy but respect. I don't ever call other girls or celebs hot in front of her and I've never made comparisons because I truly hate that shit and wouldn't do that to her purely out of respect. Anytime she gets curious and asks about my hookups I never tell her anything because I feel its disrespectful and it wouldn't help the relationship in anyway as its in the past. Now for some examples:

-Her roommate will say blah blah I love guys with blue eyes then she'll say: "See I love dark hair, olive skin, and greeeeen eyes... Mmmmm" (I have black hair, kind of olive skin maybe a bit lighter, and really dark brown eyes)

-If we're all watching a movie with someone like Channing Tatum and she's up doing something she'll say "Ooo let me know when he's on the screen, that's all I care about" and then she'll like quiver/shake like she's in love or something. (Can't really get mad at this one, dudes a stud)

-Her and her roommates were talking about back muscles and they decided they're going to the gym around 7 cuz thats when one of the really ripped dudes on campus goes to workout. She said "Carly (her roommate) might actually workout and I'm just going to act like i'm spotting her the whole time"

Just stuff like that comes up from time to time and usually I completely ignore it like I didn't even hear it or I'll say something like "Yeah, you guys would make suuch a cute couple." But its kind of a matter of pride now, and idk if I should be letting her get away with it in front of all these people. Anyway, any advice on the matter would be greatly appreciated. (is this a jealousy ploy? what are her motivations? how should I react? etc.)

Same here. I don't know about friends, I suppose she brags about guys from real life with them, but in front of me she'll throw a celebrity here and there. And it was OK few times initially, but when its a "normal" habbit, I'm not sure what they expect us to say or do. She'll deny its about looks, say she doesn't know them so she wouldn't date them in real life, and convience you its no big deal, but come on...

Last time, after we had sex for fucks sake, she bragged about some guy from TV show on channel, "smart and hot", and how she and her friend were "depressed" because he is gay acting straight, "how can this guy be gay?", yadda yadda. And then self-consciously said: "I know I should keep this with my girl friend, but...". Then I had it enough, I didn't give a fuck and told her that I'm not going to do that anymore, respond like some kind of pussy who takes it in the ass. It wasn't angry, I just expressed myself logically. At this point she goes: "I didn't mean it like that, that's not the point", blah blah..

I always joked about it, examples:
"Yes, dream on"
"But he would rather date me than you probably"
"I can try and bring you his number"
or something along the lines which caused her to ask me if I have a man crush.
etc.

But habits won't die, and its starting to annoy me. If I'm not in the mood, she'll turn it all around and try to point women I might find "hot".

Keep in mind, its normal to them, it won't change. One thing you have to be careful about, though: just because its celebrities, doesn't mean they have eyes only for them. Remember the type of guys she finds "hot". They must be all over the street. She'll keep her mouth shut about this, but watch if your girlfriend eye-gazes around. To this day I am not able to recognize that look, and she was eye-distracted by "surroundings" sometimes, but I don't have enough evidence what was this about. Its hard to make justifiable accusation.

Once I joked about all women are cheaters, to which she responded "I'm not going to meet Johnny Deep, so no worries", and she has a thing for him. Well, just because Johnny is celebrity, unavailable to her in this space-time continuum, it is still offensive. When a guy is completely unreachable does it make it alright to hint she wants him?

Its more of a problem of me and you finding such girlfriends, 'cause not all women do that in front of their partners over and over again. Why would they?

This should be re-evaluated, if done often, because this IS comparison, they are drooling, and literally pointing at other men objectively hotter than you. If a man does this, he is considered pig, womanizer, disrespectful, lacking control, but if a girl does it, "yeah, its okay", its normal, its a test of confidence, its joke, its "different standards in real life".

Really?