Hey guys, so I need some advice. I've been living the game for a few years now and have had numerous successes. Recently I have not been getting quite the fulfillment that I use to by going home with attractive girls I met out at a bar. That being said I've had many friends with benefits and love having them but I'm usually the one in control the girl always wants me a lot more than I want her, and karma just bit me in the ass. I met a girl who I really enjoy spending time with but she is the one who offered to be friends with benefits. She told me that we won't be able to have a relationship, and I'm chalking it up to the fact that she is extremely jaded from a bad marriage and is scared of commitment. She's giving me all the signs that she has an emotional attachment. I know she is sleeping with another guy besides me but I definitely get the time of day over him. So, besides the fact that she acts like she wants something serious she has said a few times that we can't have anything more than what we do at the time being. I thought about using techniques that I have used to get out of the friend zone but they don't seem logical, so does anyone have any suggestions on how to get out of the friends with benefits zone and actually make her a legitimate girlfriend? Also we do go on dates she cooks for me and we spend the night at each other's houses all the time but I really just want it to be exclusive. Our rule right now is to just tell each other if we had sex with someone else and if we used a condom. I guess I'm just starting to get jealous of these guys and it's fairly frustrating.

I would also like to clarify I don't have oneitis I haven't stopped seeing other girls because of her. I have been taking total advantage of the perks of our current relationship but the idea of another guy being with her who isn't me is really pissing me off. Sorry for all the rambling but this chick is really frustrating me.