So her roommate never ended up responding. So I ended up casually texting her this about an hour ago:

"Hey I worked in Parliament today for CBC, reminded me of you and when we went on that tour haha. How's your summer going?"

Considering that she took almost 7 hours to respond to the text I sent her one week after we broke up, I didn't expect a response tonight. But she surprisingly responded just now, with this:

"No way! That's so cool, what were you doing there? My summer has been great. Reid moved out the other day, so that really sucks. How's your summer?"

I think that's a really damn good sign. Where do you think I should go from here? My original plan was to send something that I read in the Ex2 system about us trying to be friends:

"I realize now that us breaking up was for the best. It'd be a shame to throw away our friendship though. So we should meet for coffee someday soon and work on being friends again."

Obviously I wouldn't respond with that right away, but eventually work it into the convo. But now I'm re-thinking that since she gave me somewhat of a positive response, seeking more information about me. Do you think I should play the "friend card"? Or should I just try to lead to setting up a meet? I'd really like to have her around as a friend with benefits.

Are you trying to pick up ANY other human females?

She's not that into you dude. Move on. She's replying out of politeness. If she really missed you after all this time she would say so. Even if you get to be friends with her and manage to get her to meet you for a coffee/drink/whatever how will you react when she says she has a boyfriend? In fact how do you know she doesn't have one? There are many other girls out there. Trying to hang onto this one will bring you misery. You haven't even SEEN her for such a long time now so leave it at that. She has moved on and is just being nice. Sorry dude but THINK about what you're doing. You're chasing someone you can't have. Life's too short.

OK so I have an update for everyone. I ended up following the Ex2 System's advice of making a fake girl's Facebook profile and posting on my wall. I found a legitimate-looking picture of a girl that is a big hotter than my ex. I posted on my wall as her, saying "You're too funny. Let's hang out again this Sunday." I then took a picture of myself that my ex-girlfriend had taken of me from her FB profile and made it my display pic. She's get a notification of that, and that draw her to my profile. She's definitely look at my profile since I had deactivated my FB page for most of our relationship and even after we broke up. She's want to check it out. I also got the fake hot girl to like and comment on my photo, saying "Haha you always look like you're up to no good "

I did all this after texting her, seeing if she wanted to meet up. She didn't respond for a while, and then I sent another text saying, "I realize us breaking up was for the best but I feel like we didn't have an open discussion about it. I want a better understanding of where things went wrong. I'm starting to see someone new so I want to learn and not make the same mistakes. So let's talk in person or on the phone at the very least. We said we'd talk about it at some point but haven't."

I thought she's say let's talk on the phone but she responded with "I know, and I'm sorry. I have terrible communication skills. That's fine though, let's meet up this week."

How do I approach meeting up with her? Do I go into the meetup and be friendly and game her slightly without bringing up the relationship and possibly even end up making move; or do I go in, play hard to get, pretend like I'm over it, want answers from her about our relationship, and tell her I just want be friends, thinking I might be able to get her back down the road as I will see her at upcoming parties?

Yet another typical highly hypergamous, unattainable, non-girlfriend material girl.

You want my honest advice? If you're really that desperate do the following:


1. Show ZERO affection towards her or even interest
2. Tease the shit out of her and don't answer any questions honestly (as much as possible)
3. IGNORE her completely whenever she tries to test your manhood- walk away if she does it too much
4. TELL her what to do from start to finish- tell her to take a drink, get up, come with you, sit down, stand up, bend over so you can fuck her in the ass good and hard
5. fuck her good and hard and i mean HARD, completely unapologetically - hate fuck the shit out of her and ask her if she likes being fucked like a slut (fuck her in the ass and don't even ask to do it- women like this deserve to be sodomized more than anything)
6. If she brings up the relationship- TELL her you DO NOT want to talk about it and NOT to bring it up again
7. dump her good and hard (make an excuse to leave then IMMEDIATELY leave ignoring her completely if she asks where you are going and go FULL NO CONTACT until she contacts you)

Rinse and repeat all of the above, if you want to continue fucking this girl - she is not girlfriend material (at least not for you)

Welcome to the keys to the pussy, my friend!

Haha I like you're thinking and how you've turned around from simply telling me to move on (although I feel like I'm doig that as I have a date set for Sundsy with another chick). I'm starting to realize that relationship wise, she's not the girl for me. She's definitely a great fuck though. I guess it'd hard for me let that go. You really think I have a chance of nailing her when we meet up eh? my buddy thinks so too. He thinks I can do anything I want and he's impressed with how I turned it around. And your plan sounds good, that's what I had in mind.

I don't get how I show zero interest in her AND avoid talking about our relationship though? What's my reason for meeting up then? Just take on a platonic friend vibe but then tease her and act like I don't give a shot about her at the same time? More details would be great.

American doctors are too quick to diagnose medical conditions that don't necessarily exist. Depression, bi-polar, ADHD kids who just needs to go to bed earlier etc. (bad parenting). 100 years ago people were fine without meds. Every single person I know who has ever taken meds has regretted it and only had bad experiences.

As for this girl, you won't ever get her back by "proving" you've changed. This will simply show her that you're trying to impress her to win her back, showing her that she is the prize instead of her pursuing you. You are basically giving her all the power.

Whenever I hear guys say "we broke up, it was a mutual decision" i know its a lie. Because they then proceed to whine about how hurt they are about it all etc. Be a man, stop lying to yourself, you are in denial. She dumped you, admit this to yourself, there is no shame in it, stop trying to save face. There was nothing mutual about it. Learn from your mistakes and come back stronger. Before you know it, you will have a new girl 10 times hotter than this chick sucking your dick and you'll laugh about your experience with this girl.

Completely avoid talks about the relationship- at least in a serious manner and show ZERO affection.
Use sarcasm, humor and teasing from start to finish with her and completely sexual. You should tease, evade (avoid showing affection or any seriousness) and escalate sexually.
Here are a few examples:

Her: hey i'm sorry it didn't work out between us
You: Really? I thought we were like romeo and juliet. Hey, what happened to my fair maiden...she stopped giving me blowjobs? (a sarcastic, pretend puppie dog expression)

Her: iv'e been thinking about our relationship lately
You: Iv'e been thinking about eating you out banging you silly for hours...maybe even letting you suck me off a few times...man don't you feel privileged? (sly wink/grin)

Her: Maybe it just wasn't meant to be between us
You: Shit! I thought we were gonna be soulmates until death do us part! man, you were a real disappointment!
Hey? never mind, lets just continue fucking each others brains out. No biggie eh? (wink, grin)

Her: Have you been thinking about me?
You: Oh yeah....all the time...particularly having you riding me for hours, while i watch TV or play video games- fuck that'd be awesome...dontcha think? (sarcastic expression)

Her: What are you thinking about?
You: eating you out...like your pussy was a fucking seafood buffet (eyefuck her silly and HOLD eye contact)

Her: It was good while it lasted
You: Yeah it was particularly good when you were sucking my dick like it was your life support machine (wink, sly grin)

Her: I'm sorry and hope I didn't hurt you?
You: Sorry about what? the only time you hurt me was when you almost bit my dick off when I came heavily in your mouth...hey you really need to practise that more you know...
a guy gets really nervous when women don't know how to give head (hold confident eye contact)

In all honesty, never try to be affectionate with her again- this one is just a piece of ass and this is how you should treat EVERY woman who disrespects you or dumps you in the future!

Good luck in claiming that prize- the vagina!! Joke....

I don't have bad experiences with meds. I sure for some people, they don't help and make things worse. For me, they completely change the quality of my life. I agree the Western medical establishment is a joke though, especially when it comes to chronic health concerns.

What do you think I should do with the girl then? I can try to make her chase me by meeting her, getting some clarity about the end of our relationship so that I can learn from it, and make it appear that I'm easily moving on. That's one of my options. Is that what you think I should do?

Although she's the one who went through with the breakup, I had been thinking about it for a long time and even went so far to hit on other girls at her own party and get their numbers. She saw that. It was ballsy. I wouldn't have done that if I wasn't considering ending it myself. I agree I was sticking around for the comfort until I found someone better. She just went through with the breakup in the end. It's not like I was completely happy with her and the breakup caught me by surprise. I just didn't want it to end YET.

If you wanted it to end eventually anyway, she did you a favour by dumping you

Embrace single life. The freedom is awesome.

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Thank you,

Peace and Love,

Vic

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