I need three questions answered.
I'm 17 with an HB8.5 been exclusive for about 4 months, but have known each other much longer than that.
For the past couple of weeks, me and her have been having sex everyday, and if not, there's usually oral.
Lately I've been feeling like we've been spending too much time together, so I plan on being less available. And possibly cutting contact on a Friday or Saturday night, to rekindle some fire.

1.What do you do when she denies sex for a medical reason?; Example one;We have sex all the time, during sex I ripped something and it hurt her the next day. Example two;She has a follicle infection. (The follicle infection is cause from discharge and tight close, nothing related to sex. And when she said we should hold off on the sex for a bit I said "but sex has no relation to the symptoms we'll be fine, and I doubt we'll both be able to stop" then she said "think you could handle sex 3 times a week?" My response was just to ask her if she could, gave no emotional distress.

2.She's been saying I'm the one, talks about marriage, possibly wants children in the future, ect. How do I tell her I'm not looking for that? I want to let her know that I'm not gonna jump into anything and I'm not stuck on her. We're both young; Yes I've tried explaining it just like that then she brings up old shit that I've said ( but you said this in a text and blah blah. ) I probably fucked up on this part, by saying at some point that I would want all of that.

3.How do you deal with the rants? Woman always tend to do this, but with this girl, it happens often. She seems extremely emotional. Example one; I might be moving to away in 5 months, nothing set in stone just theory talk. And she cries about it, literary, every time it's brought up. Now she's convinced herself that's she'll just come with me. (I figure this is just her way to convince herself not to feel upset about it)
She'll rant about things going on in her life consistently; most of our phone calls are her just rambling on about what happened during her day.

She sounds like an attention whore lol your choice of whether or not some pussy is worth that. I'll tell you, not all girls are like that. Some are... but they are usually immature.

Let me answer your first question-

How would you feel if you were forced to have sex when your penis/balls hurt? Forcing one to have sex is worse than going to a prostitute. Let her heal and then go for it. If there's no valid reason for her denial, start meeting her less often.

About you planning on being less available - are you doing it for a reason? Simply being "less available" for no cause will not improve your relationship.

@ Xeydo I understand that completely, she's even tried to have sex when she's been hurting and I'm the one who stopped.
As for the being less available I actually have things that I would like to do, the gym mostly. I was going to the gym twice a day before we started dating, and now I hardly have enough time to go twice a week.

You need to tell her off or be done with it dude.

Seriously, just go up to her tomorrow and say "You're becoming really clingy. I love you, but I'm busy a lot, and I'm feeling smothered by you, I need space to breathe. I love spending time with you, and I'll definitely make time for us. But I just need time to do my own thing." Reassure her that you still love her because if you don't, shell freak the fuck out and think you're seeing other people etcetc.


She's your gf. She isn't a 12 year old. Start showing her that her childish attitude is annoying. She sounds unattractive with it and eventually your relationship WILL start to deteriorate because YOU aren't happy with it. You have to make HER know that. Be the man.

Side note, don't forget, you still need to need to reward/punish her based on her 'performance'. A good book to read on this sorta thing is the Ex2 system by Matt Huston.

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