I met this girl, she KINDA put out on the first date (I'll spare boring details). She also told me she's had sex with over 30 guys and she's 19. I'd only had sex with 8 girls at this point at age 25.

Whenever we talked I'd always talk about having sex and how horny I was blah blah blah. I'm like this with all girls, not gonna change. What's interesting though, and this is what I'm making this thread about, is..

She ended up telling me I'm "So sexual!" and that she's not used to guys being so extreme in that regards! We ended up breaking up quick because apparently her sex drive wasn't up to par with mine. Better sooner than later I say.

It really surprised me that she had been with so many guys + she puts out on the first date YET she's not used to horny guys. So I wonder what it is:

1) Do a lot of guys just pretend not to be interested in sex as to not scare the girl away and just HOPE they can make sex happen the next time they hang out?

OR

2) Are there genuinely a lot of guys that don't mind infrequent sex and are okay if a girl comes over JUST to hang out and no sex?!?

The answer to both your enumerated questions is an unequivocal "Yes"

However that is largely irrelevant to your real issue. You need to run your best game and disregard most of what any woman tells you outside of using it for proper calibration. The art of proper calibration is an experience based skill, which you still deficient it. The solution is to get more experience which you are doing, and dont worry about what some woman tells you other than using it to recognize patterns. If you react to what every different girl says between their shit tests, incongruity's, rationalizations, and self-justifying behaviors your game will go downhill and you will begin to question everything you know in a non-productive manner.

The cause is simply logical. Her sexual drive comes from a new partner. The 30 or so guys is clear evidence of this. She fucked you, and now she's not into you anymore because you're old game. On to number 32 because that's how she gets her nut.

What you can do is take away your availability and find a new partner.

P.S. it's not your fault. She's just a promiscuous hoe. A good monogamous woman will fuck your brains out and will have a sex drive that will defeat yours at time. I've had one, and I hope I get another.

Damn...30 guys by 19...wow.

I think the bolded part is the key. Sounds like you did sound like a horndog when you were always talking about sex. Most guys have a little more tact.

It's always better to show rather than tell. A little mystery isn't a bad thing.
Don't do this, its just creepy
Some girls can provide more than sex.

unblike the other posters im guessing
means he didn't f-close. And as we all know a near miss usually doesn't eventuate in a latter f-close for reasons I wont get into here

Really, i was wondering already. But now i got the answer im wondering why is it so special she kissed you on the first date?!

You know what it is? You didn't sympathize with the girl. The definition of sympathy is agreeing with their feelings. It's not she is not up to par with you interms of horniness level ... it's actually your job, as a men, to get her comfortable and relax to get to the horniness level you want.

But, all you have to do is sympathize with the girls ^_^. This tactic is used all the time by Barak Obama's political campaign. Whenever protestors protests against one of Barak Obama's campaigns ... Barak Obama would say, "I understand that you guys don't like how we are handling things ... I understand your feelings. Here is some media coverage of your protests. But, we are still going to keep doing what we are doing."

Returning back to game ... so to counter this from happening again say, "I understand that I may come out to sexual. Just let me know if I go to far and I will slow down."
- Then just keep going sexual ^_^. The point is that you understand how she feels ... then just keep going sexual until she says to slow down ... but normally they let you do what you want ^_^ as long you understand how they feel ... muahahhaa.
- You can also do this if you are to physical and get away with it. I say all the time, "I grew up with my male cousins and I don't really know how to be gentle around girls. If I'm to physical just let me know." Most of the time they don't resists.

*Basically, sympathize with the girl (aka: agree with how they feel) and you will get away with your actions ^_^ ...
muahhaha!
** Sympathizing is super effective when you say it before they resists ....

Try it out! I promise super effective results ^_^.